Justine Writes

What’s On November 2008

Saints and Commemorations in November

Readings for Sundays in November

Thinking of you

From the Registers

Marriages

Baptisms

Funerals

Snippets

Put it in your diary. Now!!!

Parish Wins National Award

SENSE

St Mary’s 2008 Christmas Card

Confirmation Service

Rosemary for Remembrance

Editors Notes

Round the World

The Wider Church

Do you remember?

Mothers’ Union News

William Temple

St Leonard

St Hugh of Lincoln

St Clement

A Brick Bat

A Harvest of Bells

Round and About the Parish

Did they really say that!

‘Lest We Forget’

In Flanders Field

Swedish American Advent Recipe

Twenty years ago

Praying in October

Our local community:

The World

The Church

 


Justine Writes

Re-membering

Memory is a powerful thing. It takes us back so strongly to laces where we have been, people we have known and loved. We can remember sights, sounds, touch and perhaps most evocative of all, smells. The smell of the perfume my mother used to waer when I was little can take me right back to Sunday mornings as a child snuggling up in our pew in church. I can see the church, smell it’s dusty smell, see the floor boards and the view from the gallery, remembering the twists and turn of the stairs, and Mrs Paton my Sunday School teacher. I can remember the book I won as a prize – a doll in a pram, holding a book with a doll in a pram holding a book on the cover, and I remember wondering where it all stopped – would I ever get to the last doll. And all conjoured up by a whiff of perfume…

 

November is the month in the Church’s year that focusses on remembering. In addition to our weekly remembrance of the passion and resurrection of Jesus in the Eucharist, we remember all those recognised by the Church as saints as we celebrate All Saints Day. We remember too the saints we have encountered in our daily lives, those we have loved and lost in the faithful departed of All Souls Day. Finally as the nights draw in, we remember those throughout the world and throughout history who have lost their lives as a result of war, as we join with thousands of others on Remembrance Sunday.

 

Remembering is part of what makes us human. Through it we trace our history, we know who we are, what we have learned and hopefully we don’t make the same mistakes again (although being human we may well do so!). History is what gets us ready for the future, ready to move on and to change from the past, holding on to the good, knowing it can never be taken away from us, yet moving on into uncertainty with a degree of confidence.

 

It’s that uncertain future that seems to impinge on us so much, as we look at a world around us that seems so new and precarious. Financial institutions that seemed so solid, so much part of our landscape have toppled, even countries are seeking loans and where we go next is far from clear. What is clear is that there will be times of stress ahead for most if not all of us – rising prices, falling incomes, uncertainty over jobs and mortgages. It’s a time when tensions and divisions can increase. Historically, it’s when people and nations tend to look for a scapegoat, someone to take the blame, someone to be cast out with our sins, our worries and concerns so that we don’t have to deal with them. Recent commentators have remarked on increased problems for asylum seekers and for those who look, sound or behave differently to the mainstream.

 

Perhaps that’s where the other part of re-membering comes into it. Re-membering in the sense of putting back together, drawing the members of a family, a community, a culture back together, re-membering ourselves as ultimately being part of one race, one community, where divisions only hurt the whole.

 

As we remember those who have died and give thanks for their lives, so let us re-member the communities we are part of – family, church, local community. Let us give thanks for our differences, rejoicing in what makes us unique, and let us be on the watch for what threatens to set us against each other, lest our memories become full of pain.

 

What’s On November 2008


2 November : Sunday

8:00 and 9:30 am All Saints Services 

6:30 pm All Souls Service of Remembrance      

5 November : Wednesday

10:00 Eucharist Carew Chapel

6 November : Thursday

10:00 Praise and Play - Mary and the Angel

Church Centre

9 November : Sunday

Remembrance Sunday

Usual Service Times

10 November : Monday

2:30 pm Magazine Meeting at 32 Waterer Rise

7:30 pm Theological Book Club at 32 Waterer Rise

11 November : Tuesday

9:30 am Time for God Carew Chapel

8:00 pm PCC Meeting Church Centre

12 November : Wednesday

10:00 am Eucharist Carew Chapel

16 November : Sunday

2nd Before Advent

Usual Service Times

18 November : Tuesday

7.00 pm Confirmation Rehearsal Holy Trinity Wallington

19 November : Wednesday

10:00 am Eucharist Carew Chapel

2-4.00 pm Poetry for Pleasure Church Centre

20 November : Thursday

10:00 am Praise and Play - Sharing the special news

Church Centre

7:00 pm Confirmation Service at Holy Trinity Wallington

22 November : Saturday

St Mary’s Christmas Fair

11:00 am—3:00 pm

23 November : Sunday

Christ the King

Usual service times

26 November : Wednesday

10:00 am Eucharist Carew Chapel

29 November : Friday

10:00 am Kith Kin and Kanine, Church Centre

30 November : Sunday

First of Advent

Usual Service times

6:30 pm  Advent Carols

 

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Saints and Commemorations in November

1          ALL SAINTS' DAY

2          Commemoration of the Faithful Departed (All Souls' Day)

3          Richard Hooker, Priest, Anglican Apologist, Teacher of the Faith, 1600

6          William Temple, Archbishop of Canterbury, Teacher of the Faith, 1944

8          The Saints and Martyrs of England

10         Leo the Great, Bishop of Rome, Teacher of the Faith, 461

11         Martin, Bishop of Tours, c.397

16         Margaret, Queen of Scotland, Philanthropist, Reformer of the Church,

17         Hugh, Bishop of Lincoln, 1200

19         Hilda, Abbess of Whitby, 680

20         Edmund, King of the East Angles, Martyr, 870

23         Clement, Bishop of Rome, Martyr, c.100

29         Day of Intercession and Thanksgiving for the Missionary Work of the Church

30         Andrew the Apostle

Readings for Sundays in November

2 November   

All Saints/All Souls

Revelation 7 9-17  :  1 John 3 1-3  :  Matthew 5 1-12

9 November

Remembrance Sunday

Wisdom 6 12-16  :  1 Thessalonians 4 13-end  :  Matthew 25 1-13

16 November

2nd Before Advent

Zephaniah 1 7, 12-end  :  1 Thessalonians 5 1-11  :  Matthew 25 14-30

23 November

Christ the King

Ezekiel 34 11-16, 20-24  :  Ephesians 1 15-end  :  Matthew 25 31-end

30 November

1st of Advent

Isaiah 64 1-9  :  1 Corinthians 1 3-9  :  Mark 13 24-end

Thinking of you

Every Sunday we pray for people living and working in two or three roads in the parish.

2 November

Mallinson Road & Mellor Close

9 November

Derry Road & Harrington Close

16 November

All Industries, shops and those who work in the Parish.

23 November

Crispin Close & Crispin Crescent

30 November

Beddington Lane 

From the Registers

Marriages

11th October 2008

Natalie Jane Hicks and Oliver Christian Beales

Baptisms

12th October

Madison Lucy Willow Rice

Fletcher William terence Rice

19th October

Olivia Ann Pamela Cheeseman

Funerals

30th October

Julie Ann Turker RIP

Snippets

Jean Kimber writes ‘On looking through my tower record book, I discovered that Beddington was the 2nd tower I rang in (after Trumpington, where I learnt) and that my first visit was on August 31 – the day we celebrated in church!! What a coincidence!’

 

Three members of the Poetry for Pleasure Group, have selected poems by Irish, Scottish and Welsh poets for discussion at their next meeting.  Everyone welcome on Wednesday 19th November 2pm to 4pm.

 

‘ALL THINGS BRIGHT AND BEAUTIFUL’ Is the title of the CD featuring the boys of the St Mary’s Choir.  This professionally recorded CD will be on sale at the Christmas fair for £10.  You can also buy it from Andrew Wilson or by mail order from Alpha Records, telephone 07932965280.

The CD includes haunting folk songs and popular show numbers as well as much love dcarols and sacred music.  It is rounded off with two Christmas pieces when the boys are joined by Alto, Tenor and Bass singers.


‘THE SHADOW OF THE GALILEAN’ BY Guy Theissen is this months book in the Theology Book Club.  It will be discussed at 32 Waterer Rise 7:30pm on 10/11/2008 everyone welcome.  Contact Justine or Paul for more information.  The book is published by SCM Press and costs £12.99.


The September Open Coffee Morning raised a record £302 for the Macmillan Nurses.  Thanks are due to the ‘Kith, Kin and Kanine Team’ and to everyone who came. So far the initiative we took part in has raised £5 million for the Charity and money is still coming in they hope to raise £8.5 million in total. Macmillan Nurses provide practical medical emotional and financial support for people affected by Cancer. 

 

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Put it in your diary. Now!!!

Kith Kin and Kanine:

Friday 28th November

Friday 19th December

10:00 to 11:30 The Church Centre

 

Christmas Fair

Saturday 22nd November 2008

11:00am to 3:00pm

 

Advent Carols

Sunday 30th November 2008

6:30 pm

 

Meeting for Parish Parents

Thursday 5th December 2008

7:30pm Church Centre

Refreshments provided!

 

Childrens Christmas Party

Sunday 7th December 2008

Church Centre

Further Details soon!

 

Christingle Service

Sunday 7th December 2008

4:00pm in Church


Parish Wins National Award

The winners of the Sense Awards have just been announced. The awards are organised by Sense in recognition of exceptional achievements. Nominees have campaigned, volunteered and worked for and on behalf of deafblind people, sometimes for decades. David Blunkett MP presented the winners with their awards at a special ceremony in London on Thursday 23 October.

 

Richard Brook, Chief Executive of Sense said “These awards show that our passion for supporting and empowering deafblind people is still at the heart of everything we do. Our partners and volunteers share this enthusiasm. I would like to congratulate all those who were nominated for their exceptional contributions.”

 

Partnership – Community

Winner – Rev Justine Middlemiss and congregation at St Mary’s Church, Church Road

 

SENSE

What is SENSE

Sense is the leading national charity that supports and campaigns for children and adults who are deafblind. We provide expert advice and information as well as specialist services to deafblind people, their families, carers and the professionals who work with them. We also support people who have sensory impairments with additional disabilities.

 

Our services include on-going support for deafblind people and families. These range from day services where deafblind people have the opportunity to learn new skills and Sense-run houses in the community – where people are supported to live as independently as possible. We also provide leading specialist advice, for example on education options and assistive technology.

St Mary’s 2008 Christmas Card

Now on sale!  The picture is a 6 by 4 picture of the Nativity Scene in the ‘Bryant’ Window in the South Aisle, near the Font.

 

The photograph is mounted on good quality card, and is blank inside for your own special message.  The card is the right size to be sent 1st or 2nd class post.

 

The cards will be available after Sunday Services and at the Christmas fair.  Cost £3 for a pack of 5.  If you cannot get some at these times please ‘phone 86693220 to place your order.

 

All proceeds go to church funds.

Confirmation Service

On Thursday 20th November 2008, some of our congregation young and a little older will be Confirmed at Holy Trinity Wallington. Service at 7:00 pm, please support them if you can.


Rosemary for Remembrance

As quoted in Hamlet Rosemary is for remembrance, and that is just one of the many sayings about this common garden shrub.  Rosemary was once a sign of fidelity and worn by wedding couples or given to their guests to signify love and faithfulness.

 

Rosemary comes from the Mediterranean.  Its botanical name is , Rosemarinus, which means sea dew and it is often found on sea cliffs. It is believed that the Romans brought Rosemary to England. The Romans burnt it in sick rooms to freshen the air.  It is still used in shampoos because it is used a s a hair and skin tonic.  Rosemary oil is used a s an insect repellent.

 

Rosemary grows best in a sunny spot on well-drained soil.  It is an attractive low hedge.  There is a legend that Rosemary grows for 33 years, the length of Christ’s life, and then dies. It is better to replace it more often as it becomes very ‘straggly’.

 

In the kitchen Rosemary combines well with meat, especially Lamb, with roast potatoes and with tomatoes, but only use the tips of the stems.  The woody parts impart a bitter taste.  Save those for the barbecue where burning them can produce a delicious aroma.


Editors Notes

This is now the third edition produced since I started, and I want to thank everyone who has contributed and helped me.  There is an increasing number of contributors but I still would like as many people as possible to give me contributions large or small, recipes, memories, topical comment or news. Remember it is your magazine let it reflect all the diversity of our community.   God Bless you all

Paul

 

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Round the World

Sri Lankan churches face challenges amid raging war

The World Council of Churches’ (WCC) General Secretary, Rev. Dr Samuel Kobia, lit a peace candle during an ecumenical celebration at the Anglican cathedral in Colombo. He was there as part of a WCC delegation, meeting with Sri Lankan church and civil society leaders. "The trauma is deep and so is the bitterness. The inflicted wounds cut very deep," Kobia said at a public address delivered at a Bible Society auditorium in Colombo.  "All these, one could say, are the consequences of a protracted civil war, but the fact is that the hatred, the bitterness, the pain are still there and one cannot wish them away or ignore them," said Kobia. Although "one is left with the chilling feeling that this country sits on a social time bomb," he added, that churches "by the very nature of their gospel mandate, have a responsibility to promote peace and work towards the transformation of conflicts."

Source:   World Council of Churches

 

Zambian churches urged to be non-partisan in presidential campaign

A Zambian bishop has said churches in Zambia must be non-partisan during the campaign period for the forthcoming 30 October presidential election, and another church leader has urged citizens to turn out and vote. Bishop Joshua Banda of the Northmead Assemblies of God in Lusaka made his plea after some church leaders openly endorsed presidential candidates. Banda said it was wrong since churches had diverse memberships with different political affiliations.

 

At an 18 October service in Lusaka to celebrate 44 years of Zambian independence, the Rev. Moses Mwale, chairperson of the Council of Churches in Zambia, said, "Let us not stay away from elections. We should all take part in voting, and also avoid receiving bribes from those contesting elections. We should just vote with conviction."

Source:   Ecumenical News International 

 

A former Anglican archbishop of Cape Town has described poverty in South Africa as being worse than ever. Having met communities affected by poverty across the country, Archbishop Njongonkulu Ndungane said South Africa was in "a state of emergency". "The anger, the frustration and the feeling of hopelessness especially among young people is a recipe for possible disaster," he said.

 

Official figures suggest around 25% of South Africans are unemployed. "Never before in the history of South Africa have such large gatherings of people consistently said 'we have no food,'" said the archbishop.  "In a country where huge amounts can be spent on [the 2010] soccer world cup or increasing salaries, it is unthinkable that so many can go without food."

 

A man who stole thousands of pounds of lead from a church roof in County Durham just days after it was installed has been jailed for five months. It took the congregation of St John's Church, Seaham, 10 years to raise more than £100,000 for the roof repairs. Lee Everist, 22, was among a gang who took the lead worth £20,000 in April. Durham Crown Court Recorder Ian Atherton described the theft as "quite a horrendous crime in social terms". Local people held countless jumble sales, pie and pea suppers, Christmas fairs and lunches to raise the £102,050 needed for extensive repairs on the Grade II-listed church, which was built in 1835.

Story from BBC NEWS:


The Wider Church

New Church of England statistics published 23/10.08 show increases in the number of clergy being trained and ordained. They also show increases in the amount parishioners are donating towards the mission of the Church. The figures confirm the changing patterns of church attendance, published earlier this year.

 

I - Vocations

Official Church Statistics, published today on the Church of England website, show increases in the number of clergy being trained and numbers being ordained. The Church recommended 595 future clergy for ordination training in 2007, the greatest number for more than a decade and maintaining the upward trend since the mid-‘90s. In 1994, 408 candidates were recommended for training.

 

Part of the increase is made up of younger candidates, with 243 of those recommended for training in 2007 being under 40; compared with 239 in 2006, 209 in 2005 and 188 under 40 in 2004. To further encourage young vocations to the priesthood, the Ministry Division of the Archbishops’ Council has developed the Call Waiting campaign including the website www.callwaiting.org.uk, a glossy magazine with essential information for prospective clergy, and a series of eye-catching posters. Audio interviews with young trainee priests, curates and vicars on the Call Waiting website chronicle the journey from initial sense of calling through discernment to training and ministry.

 

The Church ordained 552 new clergy in 2007, an increase on the 481 ordained in 2006 and the highest number since the year 2000. Overall, 262 women and 290 men were ordained in 2007, though just over half (52%) of these were ordained to non-stipendiary ministry. Of those ordained to full-time, stipendiary ministry, 162 were men and 102 were women.

 

At the end of 2007, there were 20,355 ministers licensed by Church of England dioceses, including clergy, readers and Church Army officers: one minister for every 2,500 people in England. “The nation continues to enjoy the spiritual ministry of an increasing variety of Church of England ministers, many of whom also contribute to the health of their local community in a wide range of voluntary capacities,” observed the Revd Lynda Barley, Head of Research and Statistics for the Archbishops’ Council. The total does not include almost 1,600 chaplains to prisons, hospitals, the armed forces and in education, nor around 7,000 retired ministers with permission to officiate.

 

II - Finance

Average weekly giving by Church of England parishioners increased to £5.38 in 2006. Statistics released today show that direct giving to parish churches averaged £5.38 per electoral roll member per week and tax-efficient giving increased to an average of £8.64 per subscriber per week (up from £5.08 and £8.26 respectively in 2005). The number of parishioners subscribing to tax-efficient regular giving through Gift Aid rose to a further record of 527,000.

 

“Direct giving to parishes continues to increase year on year, with a five per cent increase in weekly giving and a similar increase in the tax-efficient giving of more than half a million people regularly Gift-Aiding to the Church,” said Dr John Preston, the Church’s National Stewardship and Resources Officer. “Church members give generously to charitable causes compared with the population at large and it is far too early to tell if the current economic turbulence is affecting giving, but the Church is grateful for the committed support given by so many to their local church. While our givers on average donate just over three per cent of their incomes to the Church, that is still somewhere short of the five per cent of disposable income recommended by the General Synod since 1978.

 

“The five per cent aim was based on the Christian tradition of tithing or giving away 10 per cent of income and the recommendation was to give half of that to the Church in thanks for God's gifts and half to other charitable works.”

 

The total income of Parochial Church Councils in 2006, the figures show, rose to £826million. Total expenditure rose to £792million, of which more than £46million was devoted to charitable giving by the PCCs to other charities and mission organisations, 7.5 per cent of their recurring expenditure of £618million.

 

III - Attendance

Church Statistics 2006/7 confirms the provisional 2006 attendance statistics first published in January 2008, showing congregations at Christmas and Easter increased by seven and five per cent, but weekly congregations down one per cent.


Do you remember?

The blood red poppy was chosen as the emblem of remembrance because the Flanders fields were covered with them. Poppies grow in disturbed earth. Which battles had caused their growth?

Who makes the red poppies?

When was the first Remembrance Day?

Exactly when did the guns of Europe fall silent after WW1?

Who designed and built the Cenotaph?

What does "Cenotaph" actually mean?

What is the three-word inscription on it?

WW2

On which date did Britain declare war on Germany?

Ration books were introduced in January of which year?

What name was given to flying bombs?

Which famous battle was fought in July 1942?

When was D-Day?

In which month of which year were HMS Hood and the Bismarck sunk?

When was the Battle of Britain?

Which famous raid took place in May 1943?

When was VE Day?

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Mothers’ Union News

For all parents there are many times when being a parent is fulfilling and enjoyable. But for some parents the responsibility for caring for their children is daunting, and there are often times when they feel isolated and under pressure as they try to work through problems or difficult situations.

Mothers' Union is committed to offering support to families and works to equip parents with support and skills, giving them the confidence they need to do the most important job they’ll ever undertake. It has established a range of projects to offer support networks, practical help and social contact and encouragement for parents:

 

In 1999 Mothers' Union discovered that whilst there were many resources available for parenting group facilitators, there was little training available to them. This led to the introduction of the Parenting Training Programme. Now operating in Britain and Ireland, Uganda, Rwanda, West Indies and Kenya, the course is designed to equip members with the skills they will need to facilitate parenting groups. Once trained these members go on to set up groups that parents can join, to share ideas, pick up practical tips and make friends. Within the UK and Ireland trainees completing the course have the opportunity to gain external accreditation through the Open College Network London Region.

 

Mothers Union is exploring the possibility of bringing the Parenting  Course to St Mary’s but some ground work needs to be done before that happens.


William Temple

1881 –1944

It was said of William temple ‘it was not his great intellect or his astonishing gift of understanding that made the deepest impression but the fact of his holiness.’

 

William Temple, Bishop of Manchester, Archbishop of York and then of Canterbury was the son of a previous Archbishop Frederick Temple. Educated at Oxford where he taught before becoming Headmaster of Repton School. He commented ‘I doubt whether Headmastership is really my line’, but retained a life-long interest in education and contributed much both formally and informally.

 

From Repton he became Vicar of St James Church Piccadilly, and ministered throughout the 1st World War Sharing with people the concerns of reconciling a God of Peace and Love with the horrors of the Western Front.

 

At the same time he began much of the work which would mark his life: bringing together people in the Church separated by their different views, widening the churches sphere of activity, and lobbying to give the Church greater freedom from state control.

 

In 1920 he became Bishop of Manchester.  Here his passion for social justice found expression in his concern for the poor and the welfare of the coalminers. His outspoken preaching brought charges of ‘political interference’.  He had also joined the Labour Party and agreed that ‘some of my recent utterances have not been liked in political circles.’

 

In 1929 he became Archbishop of York and increasingly involved in national and international affairs..  He continued with his work of church reconciliation and this led to the founding of the World Council of Churches.  He was also involved in the debates about the revision of the Book of Common Prayer.

 

Despite all the controversy he caused in 1942 he became Archbishop of Canterbury, like his father.  In the two years he held the post, before his death, he continued to court controversy.  He criticised the banking system at a large meeting in the Royal Albert Hall.  He was most effective in a committee helping to overhaul the countries education system, which led to the 1944 Education Act.

 

Many wondered that ‘among all the work of diocesan administration , church and national committees, he was still able to exercise his great gifts as a preacher and writer.’  His last book ‘Readings in St Johns Gospel is still regarded as his greatest memorial and as a great work of spirituality.

St Leonard   

November 6

Leonard was a Frankish noble in the court of Clovis I, King of the Franks. He was baptised, together with Clovis, at Christmas 496, by St Remigius, Bishop of Rheims. Leonard asked Clovis to grant him the right to liberate prisoners he considered worthy of it.

 

He secured the release of a number of prisoners, for whom he now considered to be the patron saint. He declined a bishopric, entered a monastery near Orleans and then became a hermit in the Forest of Limousin.

 

As a favour, Leonard was given land at Noblac in the Limoges area and he founded an abbey, around which a village grew, named Saint-Leonard de Noblac in his honour.

 

Many released prisoners came to him, some still with their chains. A considerable number stayed with him and were given parts of his forest to clear and make ready as fields where they could have the means to live an honest life.

 

Today, Saint-Leonard de Noblat, Haute Viennes, is on of the UNESCO World Heritage Sites.


St Hugh of Lincoln

November 17

Hugh was born about 1140 near Grenoble in the foothills of the French Alps. At the age of 25 he became a Carthusian monk at the nearby Grande Chartreuse.

 

From there he was invited by King Henry II of England to take charge of Charterhouse (the Carthusian monastery) in Somerset. It had been founded in reparation for the murder of Thomas à Becket and was struggling to survive.

 

In 1186 he became Bishop of Lincoln and proved to be a bishop of massive energy. He re-founded the Lincoln theology school, visited extensively, took responsibility for rebuilding Lincoln Cathedral after an earthquake (doing some of the work himself), tended the sick and calmed an anti-Jewish riot. He rebuked kings (even once shaking King Richard I) and royal officers when necessary. 

 

He died in 1200 in Lincoln and is often portrayed in art with a swan, which he had had as a pet in his manor at Stow.


St Clement   

November 23

St Clement was a Roman by birth but claimed to have been of Jewish extraction. He is known to have written a letter to the Corinthians and it is one of the oldest Christian documents still in existence outside the New Testament. Tradition identifies him as the Clement that St Paul mentions in Philippians 4:3 as a fellow labourer. He is believed to have become Pope some time between 88 and 92 AD. He was martyred in 100 AD by being tied to an anchor and thrown into the sea.

 

St Clement Danes

This famous London church is the home of the Royal Air Force. It also claims to be the one featured in Oranges and Lemons although the church of St Clement, Eastcheap, also makes that claim.

 

How did it get its name? The first church on the site was reputedly founded by Danes living nearby in the 9th century. The location on the river between the City and the future site of Westminster, was home to many Danes when nearly half of England was Danish. Being a sea-faring race, the Danes named the church after St Clement, the patron saint of mariners. His symbol is the Mariner's Cross, also called the Cross of St Clement.

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A Brick Bat

This letter came from a poor old bricklayer who had suffered an accident. He has been besieged with the bureaucracy of an insurance company in filling out the forms for a Workmen's Compensation claim.

 

"I am writing in response to your request for additional information. In Block 10 of the accident reporting form I put 'poor planning', as the cause of my accident. You said in your letter that I should explain more fully, and I trust that the following details will be sufficient.

 

I am a bricklayer by trade. On the day of the accident, I was working alone on the roof of a new six story building. When I completed my work I discovered that I had about five hundred pounds of bricks left over.

 

Rather than carry the bricks down by hand, I decided to lower them in a barrel by using the pulley, which fortunately was attached to the side of the building at the sixth floor. Securing the rope at ground level, I went up to the roof, slung the barrel out, and loaded the bricks into it. Then I went back to the ground, untied the rope, holding it tightly to assure a slow descent of the 500 pounds of brick.

 

You will note that in Block 11 of the accident reporting form that I weigh 135 pounds.  Due to my surprise at being jerked off the ground so suddenly, I lost my presence of mind, and forgot to let go of the rope.  Needless to say, I proceeded at a rather rapid rate up the side of the building.  In the vicinity of the third floor, I met the barrel coming down.  This explains the fractured skull and broken collar bone.

 

Slowed only slightly, I continued my rapid ascent, not stopping until the fingers of my right hand were two knuckles deep into the pulley.  Fortunately, by this time I had regained my presence of mind and was able to hold tightly to the rope in spite of my pain. 

 

At approximately the same time, however, the barrel of bricks hit the ground, and the bottom fell out of the barrel.  Devoid of the weight of the bricks, the barrel now weighed approximately fifty pounds.  I refer you again to my weight in Block 11.  As you might imagine, I began a rapid descent down the side of the building.  In the vicinity of the third floor, I met the barrel coming up.  This accounts for the two fractured ankles and the lacerations of my legs and lower body.

The encounter with the barrel slowed me enough to lessen my injuries when I fell into the pile of bricks.  And fortunately, only three vertebrae were broken.  I am sorry to report, however, that as I lay there on the bricks in pain, unable to stand, and watching the empty barrel six floors above me, I again lost my presence of mind and let go of the rope.

A Harvest of Bells

I missed Harvest at St Mary's this year because I was "harvesting" a new crop of bells in Cornwall. For the past 44 years the same group has been touring round the country ringing bells on the first weekend in October. From Cornwall to Co. Durham, from Wales to East Anglia, we have met up to ring together each year.

 

We live as far apart as Nottingham. South Wales, Hampshire and Romney Marsh but the organisation is centred in Kent. Stewart and I were among the very few who did not originate in Kent.

 

So how did we get involved? Ringers don't only ring in their own towers. Many visit other towers to join in their practice nights, either to improve their own ringing or to help out. I used to go regularly to West Wickham practices and so became involved with many of the Kent ringers.

 

I have rung in so many towers that I have lost count. At first I kept a record but one mislaid itinerary and that was it. It's well over 1,000, maybe nearer 2,000 - I rang in my 600th tower 38 years ago!

 

St Mary's is a "traditional" belfry set-up; the tower is at the west end of the church and we go upstairs to an enclosed ringing room. This is not the case in many churches. Of the 14 towers we rang in over our weekend in Cornwall, 11 were rung from the ground floor. Although there are no stairs to climb (oh joy) there is often a long draught of rope to contend with. Sometimes there are rope guides several feet up to help.

 

However, if there is a central tower with a ground floor ring, we often find ourselves ringing in front of the chancel steps. Imagine that on a Sunday morning! You can't hide your mistakes - everyone's watching! And it's difficult to walk out before the service. In St Mary-de-Crypt, Leicester, one ascends and descends through a pillar in the middle of the congregation.

 

Other central towers have "interesting" access. At St Paul's, Bedford, along with others, you have to cross the roof to get into the ringing room. Great, as long a it's not raining! Cathedral access is often up through the walls, round the choir, through the roof and up more stairs (eg Southwark Cathedral). Washington Cathedral supplies a lift, a walk through the roof, where they have constructed a 100-seater theatre, and up another lift. Very thoughtful.

 

At Pershore Abbey, you ring from a cage suspended high up under the tower. It's accessed via a staircase in the walls and a "cat-walk" across to the cage - not suitable for those with no head for heights! St John's Lane in Dublin has a free-standing iron spiral staircase, leading from a platform overlooking the congregation, and up through a trap door. There are no rails - health and safety would have a field day.

The Post Office Tower in Washington, standing in a large Shopping Mall, has a lovely ring of 10 and is reached via a glass lift. Tours are organised by the National Parks Service and we were escorted up by a uniformed Ranger.

 

Some country churches are not actually in the villages but in fields, by rivers or on privately owned estates. Horsmonden in Kent, lies isolated due to the Plague. The village was wiped out and rebuilt up on the main road. St Hydroc in Cornwall is within the National Trust grounds of Lanhydrock House. Ringers therefore get free access to the beautiful gardens.

 

Some bell towers are not actually connected to the church they serve. They are usually known as Campaniles. Chichester Cathedral, Ledbury, Biggin Hill and Pembridge in Hereford are among them . The latter two are large wooden structures with little or nothing between ringers and bells. They are very noisy and one develops sign language for instructions.

 

My recent favourite is St Winnow. The church stands on the banks of the River Fowey and with the bells ringing and the evening sun shining on the water, it proved an idyllic setting. Indeed, it has been used for some scenes from the BBC Poldark series. It certainly made a lovely start to our "harvest" weekend.

Jean Kimber

Round and About the Parish

Still awaiting contributions ….. see next month’ article on Beddington Wildlife Centre.


Did they really say that!

Church Bulletins the editor missed.

 

‘The ladies of the Church have cast off clothing of every kind and they may be seen in the Church basement every Friday.’

 

‘Don’t let worry kill you—Let the Church help’

 

‘This afternoon the service will take place in the North and South Aisles of the Church.  Children will be baptised at both ends.’

 

This being Easter Sunday, we will ask Mrs Jones to lay an egg on the Altar.

 

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‘Lest We Forget’

A short while ago a friend of mine received a communication from the Royal British Legion. As would be expected this was an appeal for a donation but an appeal with a difference.

 

In the letter was a large flat cardboard poppy and they were invited to write the name of any relatives and friends who had lost their lives in war on the card.  Once all these cards were returned they would be taken to the Menin Gate in Ypres and be offered in the November 11th Service of Remembrance.

 

John and I went on holiday some years ago and visited some of the 1st World war Battlefields.  It was strange to be walking across ground on which our own fathers had fought all those years ago.  Passchendale, Mons, Hill 60 and others.  Then to see the almost countless numbers of graves in the cemeteries there.

 

Down the centuries many poets have written on the theme of remembrance, both in his sonnets and the famous quote from ‘Hamlet’:

‘There’s rosemary, that’s for remembrance, pray love, remember.’

 

For years John stood in Carshalton High Street in the week before November 11th, with a poppy collecting tin.  He always came home with stories about the people who had given, all of them full of memories and gratitude for the sacrifices made for us who remain.

 

John’s father and mine were ‘Old Contemptibles’ and John met many who also had relatives who had been among the first to go to France in 1914.

 

Finally to close, Lawrence Binyon’s famous words:

‘At the going down of the sun,

And in the morning.

We will remember them.’

And we must continue to do that.

Mary Tapp

In Flanders Field

In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep,
though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.

 

Oh! you who sleep in Flanders Fields,
Sleep sweet - to rise anew!
We caught the torch you threw
And holding high, we keep the Faith
With All who died.

We cherish, too, the poppy red
That grows on fields where valor led;
It seems to signal to the skies
That blood of heroes never dies,
But lends a lustre to the red
Of the flower that blooms above the dead
In Flanders Fields.

 

And now the Torch and Poppy Red
We wear in honor of our dead.
Fear not that ye have died for naught;
We'll teach the lesson that ye wrought
In Flanders Fields.


Swedish American Advent Recipe

Svenska Pepparkakor (Swedish Gingerbread Snaps)
From Solweig von Minden, Byram Township, NJ
Makes 60 cookies
2/3 cup shortening
3/4 cup light brown sugar
2 tablespoons molasses
3 tablespoons boiled, cooled water
1 teaspoon grated lemon rind
21/4 cups flour
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon cinnamon
11/2 teaspoons ground cloves
1 teaspoon ground cardamom

Cream together first 2 ingredients. Add molasses, water, and lemon rind.

Sift dry ingredients together. Add to creamed mixture, a little at a time, blending well. Chill overnight.

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Roll dough really thin on lightly floured surface and cut with cookie cutters.

Bake on buttered cookie sheets for 9-10 minutes, or until browned.

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Twenty years ago

November 1988

Having found nothing suitable for his monthly column, Stewart Kimber had produced an interesting article from 1968 about the differences between a Rector, a Vicar, a Parson and a Curate. (Maybe you've been involved in discussions as to why Paul is the Assistant Curate!)

 

An article on Remembrance began with a poem by elder son when aged 12. See page 17. We had visited the battlegrounds and cemeteries of WW1 and had decided people should not be allowed to forget, no matter what the current thinking was in the press. By focusing annually on the outrage of war, it might help us and future generations to avoid confrontations of such magnitude.

 

Harvest celebrations had been greatly enjoyed and £200 had been sent for Leukaemia Research. The church had looked beautiful and gifts had been sent to parishioners, St Mary's Court, the Haven, the Cedars, Wives Refuge Home and Wel-Care. (Some forgotten names there!)

 

There was a "welcome" article about our new organist. He was a very young man (18) called Stuart Thompson. Although a local boy from Cheam, he had been a chorister at Winchester Cathedral, where he had taken up the organ. His first impression of St Mary's was that it was the friendliest congregation he had come across but he felt something was missing. It lacked a sense of cohesion. What do newcomers, or anyone else for that matter, feel 20 years on?

 

The Episcopal Church in the USA had appointed the Revd Barbara Harris as Suffragan Bishop of Massachusetts. This had apparently taken many by surprise. How surprised will we be if and when the Anglican church follows on?

 

I see from Carousel that:

- John Sharples, the recent organist, had become engaged to Helen Virago. (John became organist at Betchworth where Helen took up ringing.)

- Frances Drake had been appointed County Commissioner for the Guides

- it was going to be warmer in church following the installation of a new heating system (oh for such an experience in 2008!)

- the choir of Gatton School (the Alexandra & Albert School) was to join our choir for Evensong on November 13

and there was a Thank You from the Guide Dogs for the Blind for help received from St Mary's.


Praying in October

Our local community:

Father, we pray for the many who are trapped by growing burdens of debt,

who see no way out, and who despair for their future:

give them courage to tackle the problems they face,

clarity in taking decisions which will turn their situation around,

and faith that, as they cry to you in their trouble,

you will deliver them from their distress;

through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

 

The World

O GOD our heavenly Father,

whose love sets no boundaries and whose strength is in service;

grant to the leaders of the nations wisdom, courage and insight at this time of darkness and fear.

Give to all who exercise authority determination to defend the principles of freedom,

love and tolerance,

strength to protect and safeguard the innocent and clarity of vision to guide the world into the paths of justice and peace.

This we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

The Church

If we had a fraction of the faith in you that you have in us
then this world would be transformed, Lord.

If we showed a fraction of the love that you show to us
then this world would be transformed, Lord

If we possessed a fraction of the patience that you display with us
then this world would be transformed, Lord.

If we shared just a portion of the blessings that we have received from you then this world would be transformed, Lord.

If we showed as much trust in others as you have shown in us
then this world would be transformed, Lord.

If we claimed just a fraction of the power you promised to your Church then this world would be transformed, Lord.

Transform us first, Lord, that we might transform this world
through your love and your power.


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