Saints
and Commemorations in January
Readings
for Sundays in January
Saints
and Commemorations in February
Readings
for Sundays and Festivals in February
A
piano recital by Guy Middlemiss
A
Flower Festival at St Mary's
A
letter from the Bishop of Southwark
Daily
prayer topics in January
Daily
prayer topics in February
'Christmas is really for the children’ by Steve Turner
Christmas is really for the children,
especially for the children who like animals, stables,
stars and babies wrapped in swaddling clothes.
Then there are wise men, kings in fine robes,
humble shepherds and a hint of rich perfume.
Easter is not really for the children unless accompanied by a cream filled egg.
It has whips, blood, nails, a spear and allegations of body snatching.
It involves politics, God, and the sins of the world.
It is not good for people of a nervous disposition.
They would do better to think on rabbits, chickens and the first snowdrops of spring.
Or they’d do better to wait for a re-run of Christmas without asking too many questions
about what Jesus did when he grew up, or whether there is any connection.
As I write this article surrounded by the detritus of a family Christmas – a fridge full of leftovers, the occasional rather sad party hat lying around, I am reminded of the Church Times cartoon that said: "On Boxing Day Steve sat down to write his Lent Course.” The idea was presumably to suggest a) that clergy need to Get A Life, b) Clergy Don’t know How to Have Fun, and c) that the church was sometimes a busy place.
Well this year the caption has more than a ring of truth about it. Lent begins on the 6th of February and in the liturgical year we move straight from our celebration of the Epiphany to Ash Wednesday without a pause for breath. While this makes for busy diaries, it’s also incredibly good for us. The calendar this year links the events of Christmas and Easter inextricably. As we take down the crib scene we will be putting up the Stations of the Cross; as we finish off the last of the Christmas choccies we will be preparing for the fast of Lent. The message is stark. Jesus grows up from the baby in the manger to become the adult who disrupted and challenged the society he lived in. The baby whose birth we celebrate with such joy and generosity grows up to be the man who is crucified, demonstrating the depths of human hatred and depravity. Christ’s birth and his death and resurrection are joined. We cannot have one without the other: the heights of Christmas and Easter cannot exist without the depths of Good Friday.
It’s a painful lesson, we’d much rather stay with the fun. But if we don’t let baby Jesus grow up to become our Saviour we don’t understand the greatness of the crib at all.
Justine
What's on in January |
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Tue |
1 |
Naming and Circumcision of Jesus |
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Wed |
2 |
St Mary's Guild New Year Party at St Mary's Court |
2.30 pm |
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SUN |
6 |
THE EPIPHANY |
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Thu " |
10 " |
'Praise & Play' for pre-school toddlers …. Made by Him - the Story of Creation MU&OG. Judy Acheson will talk about her work in the Congo. The Centre (non-members very welcome) |
10-11.30 am 7.30 pm |
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SUN |
13 |
EPIPHANY 2 The Baptism of Christ |
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Tue |
15 |
'Time for God' quiet worship. The Carew Chapel |
9.30 am |
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Wed |
16 |
Mothers' Union Corporate Eucharist. Carew Chapel Poetry Circle. Looking at the work of John Clare. The Centre |
10.00 am 2-4.00 pm |
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Thu |
17 |
Sleeping Beauty Pantomime at the Secombe Centre (for MU members who already have tickets) |
7.30 pm |
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Fri |
18 |
Week of Prayer for Christian Unity begins |
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SUN |
20 |
EPIPHANY 3 |
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Tue |
22 |
PCC meeting. The Centre |
8.00 pm |
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Thu |
24 |
'Praise & Play' for pre-school toddlers …. Having Friends - Twelve Special Friends |
10-11.30 am |
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Fri |
25 |
'Kith, Kin & Kanine'. Coffee and Cake in the Centre |
10-11.30 am |
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SUN |
27 |
EPIPHANY 4 |
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Tue 1 NAMING AND CIRCUMCISION OF JESUS
Wed 2 Basil the Great and Gregory of Nazianzus, Bishops, Teachers of the Faith, 379 and 389
" " Seraphim, Monk of Sarov, Spiritual Guide, 1833
Thu 10 William Laud, Archbishop of Canterbury, 1645
Fri 11 Mary Slessor, Missionary in West Africa, 1915
Sat 12 Aelred of Hexham, Abbot of Fielvaulx, 1167
Benedict Biscop, Abbot of Wearmouth, Scholar, 689
Thu 17 Antony of Egypt, Hermit, Abbot, 356
" " Charles Gore, Bishop, Founder of the Community of the Resurrection, 1932
Sat 19 Wulfstan, Bishop of Worcester, 1095
Mon 21 Agnes, Child Martyr at Rome, 304
Tue 22 Vincent of Saragossa, Deacon, First Martyr of Spain, 304
Thu 24 Francis de Sales, Bishop of Geneva, Teacher of the Faith, 1622
Fri 25 CONVERSION OF PAUL
Sat 26 Timothy & Titus, Companions of Paul
Mon 28 Thomas Aquinas, Priest, Philosopher, Teacher of the Faith, 1274
Wed 30 Charles, King and Martyr, 1649
Thu 31 John Bosco, Priest, Founder of the Salesian Teaching Order, 1888
Sunday, 6 January
Epiphany 1
Isaiah 60 : 1-6
Ephesians 3 : 1-12
Matthew 2 : 1-12
Sunday, 13 January
Baptism of Christ
Isaiah 42 : 1-9
Acts 10 : 34--43
Matthew 3 : 13-17
Sunday, 20 January
Epiphany 3
Isaiah 9 : 1-4
1 Corinthians 1 : 10-18
Matthew 4 : 12-23
Sunday, 27 January
Epiphany 4
1 Kings 17 : 8-16
1 Corinthians 1 : 18-31
John 2 : 1-11
What’s on in February? |
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SUN |
3 |
CANDLEMASS |
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Tue |
5 |
Shrove Tuesday |
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ASH WEDNESDAY Eucharist ) Both services will include the Eucharist ) imposition of ashes St Mary's Guild meets at St Mary's Court for a talk about the work of the Wildlife Hospital in Beddington Park. |
10.00 am 7.30 pm 2.30 pm |
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Thu " |
7 " |
'Praise & Play' for pre-school toddlers. Loved by Him - Jesus Loves Children MU&G AGM followed by Bring & Buy Sale to raise money for the Relief Fund. The Centre |
10.00 am 7.30 pm |
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SUN |
10 |
LENT 1 |
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Mon |
11 |
Lent Course. The Centre |
8.00 pm |
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Tue |
13 |
Sutton Deanery Synod. Church of the Good Shepherd, Carshalton Beeches. |
7.45 pm |
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Wed |
13 |
Lent Course. The Centre |
10.30 am |
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SUN |
17 |
LENT 2 |
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Mon |
18 |
Lent Course. The Centre |
8.00 pm |
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Tue |
19 |
Time for God Quiet Worship. The Carew Chapel |
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Mothers' Union Corporate Eucharist. Carew Chapel Lent Course. The Centre Poetry Circle. Looking at the work of Thomas Hardy. The Centre |
10.00 am 10.30 am 2-400 pm |
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Thu |
21 |
Theology Book Club. The Rectory |
7.30 pm |
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Sat |
23 |
Mothers' Union Quiet Day at St John's Old Malden. |
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SUN |
24 |
LENT 3 |
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Mon |
25 |
Lent Course. The Centre |
8.00 pm |
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Wed |
27 |
Lent Course. The Centre |
10.30 am |
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Thu |
28 |
'Praise & Play' for pre-school toddlers. The Ten Silver Coins - The Lost Coins |
10.00 am |
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Fri " |
29 " |
'Kith Kin & Kanine' Coffee & Cake in the Centre Pamela Lyne entertains with '…. and Mother Came Too' |
10-11.30 am 7.30 pm |
Fri 1 Brigid, Abbess of Kildare, c525
Mon 4 Gilbert of Sempringham, Founder of the Gilbertine Order, 1189
Thu 14 Cyril & Methodius, Missionaries to the Slavs, 869 & 885
" " Valentine, Martyr at Rome, c269
Fri 15 Sigfrid, Bishop, Apostle of Sweden, 1045
" " Thomas Bray, Priest, Founder of the SPCK & SPG, 1730
Sat 23 Polycarp, Bishop of Smyrna, Martyr, c155
Sun 24 Matthias, Apostle
Wed 27 George Herbert, Priest, Poet, 1633
Sunday, 3
February
Candlemass
Malachi 3 : 1-5
Hebrews 2 : 14-18
Luke 2 : 22-40
Wednesday, 6 February
Ash Wednesday
Joel 2 : 1-2, 12-17
2 Corinthians 5 : 20b-6 : 10
Matthew 6 : 1-6, 16-21
Sunday, 10 February
Lent 1
Genesis 2 : 15-17; 3 : 1-7
Romans 5 : 12-19
Matthew 4 : 1-11
Sunday, 17 February
Lent 2
Genesis 12 : 1-4a
Romans 4 : 1-5, 13-17
John 3 : 1-17
Sunday, 24 February
Lent 3
Exodus 17 : 1-7
Romans 5 : 1-11
John 4 : 5-42
Every Sunday we pray for people living and working in two or three roads
in the parish.
The roads in January will
be:
Sunday 6 January
Northway & Clifford Avenue
Sunday 13 January
Southway & Darcy Avenue
Sunday 20 January
Eastway, Greenway & Grassway
Sunday 27 January
Rectory Lane & The Bridleway
… and
in February will be:
Sunday, 3 February
Bute Gardens & Bute Gardens West
Sunday, 10 February
Bute Road & Stannet Way
Sunday, 17 February
Osmond Gardens & St Christopher's Mews
Sunday, 24 February
Montagu Gardens & Morton Gardens
December 14
Gladys Turrel, age 78 yrs
Our Lent Course this year will be examining aspects of the Eucharist. This will, we hope, provide a helpful platform for us to discuss our policy for admitting children to Communion before Confirmation. Please do come along to the sessions either at 8pm on Monday evenings or 10.30 for 10.45 am on Wednesday mornings, starting on Monday, 11 February. Each session will last 90 minutes. If you would like to be part of a Lent course but can’t make either of these times, please contact Justine or Jenifer.
At the moment, we have decided not to hold any formal Lent Lunches this year, as over the last few years there have been only a (faithful) few attenders. If however, anyone would like to take this on, please contact Justine.
If you’ve ever wanted to read some of the books that Justine and Jenifer refer to from the pulpit but didn’t know where to start, why not join the “Theology Book Club”.
The idea is that we will meet every couple of months to discuss a Christian Classic over a cup of tea of coffee or glass of wine. We can then share our reflections and confusions and encourage each other.
To ensure that the books we choose reflect people’s interests, our first meeting will be at the Rectory on Thursday 21st February at 7.30pm.
Daily Prayer Topics. Do you find these helpful? Would you prefer perhaps a weekly prayer theme? Is there anything that would be of help to you in your spiritual life at home, iereading notes? Jenifer has been writing the Daily Prayer Topics now for over five years. Is there anyone with fresh ideas who would like to produce prayers for the Parish Magazine? Please speak to Justine or Jenifer.
Mothers' Union and Open Group will be attending the MU Deanery Epiphany Eucharist at St Oswald's, Cheam, on Monday, 7 January at 10 an, If anyone would like to attend but requires transport, please speak to Jenifer.
Churches Together in Beddington & Wallington held another highly successful Christmas Day Lunch, this year hosted by St Patrick's Church, Wallington. There are the regular guests who wouldn't miss it for the world, and the regular volunteers who also wouldn't miss it for the world. Time and time again we hear the guests saying how much they enjoy themselves and they must be passing on the message because numbers keep growing. At this rate we'll have to arrange for two sittings! Many thanks to all who helped organise this, and especially to our guests for being there.
Apologies to those accessing the St Mary's website and finding it hasn't been updated over the past few weeks. This problem has been caused by our web host providers, Fasthosts.com, suffering a security breach which led them to shut down our access for updating until new passwords were issued. We hope this problem will be resolved shortly.
The Church Diary for 2008 is now available in church. Thank you all for your suggestions, I have incorporated two of the least painful ones: the Church and Centre monthly sheets are now separated into two sections and the Centre booking pages are printed on coloured paper. Mike Morgan
A local walking group invites you to a Walk around Beddington Park. Join them for an hour's walk around Beddington Park or Waddon Ponds every Friday morning at 10 am, meeting in Church Road in front of Carew Manor. And on the last Friday of the month they all come into St's to indulge in Kith, Kin & Kanine's wonderful home made cakes and coffee. If you have any questions, give Melanie a ring on 07944 833605, otherwise - just turn up!
Delivering this magazine ….. we really do need some help to pop a few magazines through letterboxes in the following roads - not to every house I hasten to add, the number of 'drops' is indicated in brackets:
Church Lane (6)
Sandhills (2)
Guy Road (2)
Royston Avenue (1)
Iberian Avenue (2)
Queen Elizabeth Walk (2)
If you walk/drive near any of these and can help, please contact Pam Vernon in church or on 020 8669 1549.
with David Tabbat on the 'cello in a programme which includes music by Bach, Brahms and Schumann
Date in April to be confirmed
3, 4 & 5 May
A Flower Festival will be held over the Saturday, Sunday and Monday of the early May Bank Holiday Weekend, with a choir concert on the Saturday evening.
Watch out for details of these and other events in our next magazine
13 August 1927 - 20 November
2007
Love, trust, faith, responsibility and generosity; these are the words by which Peter lived his life.
Peter was born in Southampton on 13 August 1927. He had a happy childhood and although times were hard the family pulled together and the door was always open to the needy. Many times the children were told to squeeze along the table to accommodate an extra guest, or two, or even three. At the outbreak of war, together with his sister Ann and brother David, Peter was evacuated to the New Forest. His mother told him that being the eldest, he had to look after them and she also gave him a note to say that the family must be kept together at all times.
Looking after his family and many others was something he continued to do for the rest of his life
Peter joined the Post Office in 1941 as a 14 year old messenger boy; when he finished work it was as District Manager of the East London Parcel Office with responsibility for over 2,300 staff. But the Post Office offered more than just a successful career, for it was there that he met Cynthia, fell in love and the two remained inseparable until her death in September.
Peter was a friend to everyone. He had so many skills and used them selflessly. If a gate needed fixing or a drain needed clearing, if a switch or a light failed - whatever went wrong, he would fix it. His garage, like his father's before him, was an Aladdin's cave - screws, nuts & bolts, fittings of all sorts could be found there. So many people at St Mary's must have had something fixed by him.
Not only did he share his talents but his leisure time too. He seldom went out in his car without extra passengers taken for a birthday lunch, afternoon tea, a concert where his grandson was singing; or collected and taken for one of his and Cynthia's lunches or suppers at home.
Peter, along with Cynthia, were involved in the running of the church Centre from day one - they were on the management committee and, together with his fellow members, he did a lot of work there as well as in the church and the grounds.
Is this a story with a sad ending? For his family and friends everywhere who will sorely miss his kindness, consideration and love of people it is indeed a sad time. But Peter is with his "sweetheart", never again to be separated, and they will both be remembered with gratitude and love for a very long time.
January 1988
Where were you 20 years ago? Betty Walker was in Japan. In an article entitled "Greetings from Tomakomai", she had told us about her time on Hokkaido, Japan's most northerly island.
She had been entertained by the Ataku family who had lived in Rectory Lane four years previously. She had shared in the Eucharist in Sapporo. Although it was based on the ASB service, it was in Japanese!
She had also attended the church in Kyoto, close to the Imperial Palace. This service, at 8.00am, was in English and used the rite of the Episcopal church of the USA. The visitors were made very welcome and invited to share breakfast in a nearby restaurant. Iwonder what they had!
There was a plea from David Slegg for specialised help at the Boys' Brigade meetings. They needed someone to play a musical instrument, a singing teacher, a coach for football and someone able to instruct in gymnastics. (Probably not the same person!)
The MU was having a change of Enrolling Member. Mary Tapp, having served in that position for six years, was handing over to Beverley Davis. Their New Year Party, unfortunately cancelled the previous year due to severe weather, was to be on January 16 and on the 21st, Pam Vernon was to talk about her trip to the Holy Land and show her excellent photos.
Bob Emerson had delighted the Guild with his illustrated talk on his travels from student days to the present. Apparently the weather was extremely inclement and the Guild was grateful to Bob for cheering them up.
The Sunday School had staged a "Sing-in" to raise money for the Rhiannon Fund - a fund in memory of Rhiannon Ainger (granddaughter of Nesta Grimson), who had sadly died aged 13. They raised £375.
Jean Kimber
In November I had another fascinating holiday, this time in Churchill on the Hudson Bay, Canada. We flew to Toronto, then to Winnipeg where we stayed one night. Thence to Churchill in the snow and ice.
When the ice thaws, some 1000 polar bears come ashore and stay on the tundra until the bay freezes over again.
The polar bear is one of the largest of the bear family and can weigh up to 660 kilos and grow to between 8-11 feet in length. It has massive paws, the back ones partially webbed. It has excellent eyesight and hearing, and can smell a seal 20 miles away, or even if the seal is 3ft underwater. Thick layers of white-yellow fur cover a black skin under which there are layers of fat on which it lives during the winter months when it finds very little food on land. Hungry though they may be, it is an offence to feed them.
We stayed in a fairly simple but comfortable hotel and had an excellent leader. While walking outside during the day, we had to be constantly aware of the possible presence of bears. In the evening we were taken by bus, even just down the road, and one evening a bear had just passed the hotel before we left. Fire crackers were being used to scare it away. There are bear traps which are set with seal meat then towed to the bear compounds where the bears are locked up in the dark with only water. They are kept in individual compartments and after a while, they are darted, put into huge nets and carried by helicopter to a safe place. They are marked for record purposes and some have radio collars fitted for tracking their movement.
We spent two and a half days on the tundra in huge buggies, way off the ground, with opening windows and an observation platform at the end from which we watched the bears all around us, even looking up at us through the metal floor. We saw 28 bears the first day - mothers with cubs and males. The mothers were very wary when a male was near as they can attack the cubs. We also saw two snowy owls, one arctic fox and several ptarmigan.
In Winter, the Northern Lights dance across the sky and we were lucky enough one evening to watch them spiralling overhead. There were also spectacular sunsets. In Spring, there are many flowers and birds, and beluga whales come up the river.
The Hudson Bay was freezing over while we were there and soon the bears would return to the ice to search for seals, leaving the town in peace once again.
Pam Vernon
St Dunstan's Church, Cheam, Wednesday, 7 November 2007
(The first topic of
the Deanery Synod meeting dealing with domestic violence
was reported on in last month's magazine.)
The second topic for the evening was Zimbabwe. Two members of Bishop Nick's party that went to Zimbabwe last April, came to give us a first-hand view of their visit. They had gone to find out the problems for themselves and to offer support. Their report was both fascinating and horrifying.
Zimbabwe is a country of 12.9 million people. They are experiencing 8,000% inflation, making money worth virtually nothing. Food is scarce; power cuts and water shortages are the norm and the infrastructure of the country has been destroyed. People are leaving where possible and trying to build lives in other countries. Many are suffering with HIV/Aids, known as "the Epidemic".
Despite this, the faith of the people is very strong. They believe God will come to their aid. The pictures we saw were not of a miserable, downtrodden people but of communities still smiling and getting on with life, no matter what. They welcomed their visitors and insisted they shared food with them everywhere they went. That would have meant saving up resources and going without themselves.
Their church services were a wonderful mixture of conventional and ethnic rites. Their liturgy would be accompanied by drums and incense and the Mothers' Union featured heavily in all church life. They would sing and dance but kept the rules very strictly, considering ours to be rather lax.
Many would walk up to seven miles to church and the services would last three to four hours. If the talk/sermon didn't take an hour-and-a-half, they would be disappointed! So their whole morning could last from 8.30 till 1.00 and usually they didn't eat until after the Communion.
Although most of us have read reports of this visit elsewhere, the two who came to talk to Synod really brought it alive with their photos and personal accounts. We all feel we can do so little for those people at the moment but we pray the time will come when we can help. As most of you know, our PCC decided to put a percentage of every fund-raising event on one side to build up an amount of money with which to be able to buy specific needs for the people of Zimbabwe. Please come and support our efforts.
There was a report from the Board of Finance held in May and one from the July meeting of the Diocesan Synod. One of the items there was on "Godly Play". This is a method of working with children and adults, based on Montessori practice. Its aim is to help communities to grow together using symbols and artefacts to bring Bible stories to life. The Dean of Southwark urged Synod members to explore it.
Jean Kimber
Deanery Representative
Where did all the Christian denominations come from?
Have you ever wondered about the beginnings of the Eastern Orthodox Churches? the Roman Catholic Church? the Church of England? the Baptists? the Presbyterians? the Pentecostals? Where did all these denominations come from and why did they start in the first place? Why don’t we have one Christian Church around the world to which all Christians belong? Don’t all Christians believe, more or less, the same doctrines? Don’t all these doctrines come from one Book – the Bible? And, in particular, don’t all Christians worship the same God? If so, why are there so many denominations? so many divisions? so many different names for Christian churches?
We shall try to answer some of these questions with a series of articles on other denominations. We begin with:
In this brief summary the Eastern Orthodox Churches will be referred to as Orthodoxy. This does not mean orthodoxy as opposed to heresy; rather it is a convenient name for these Churches that originated in the East in the earliest days of Christendom.
Orthodoxy can claim to be the oldest part of the Christian Church. As early as Acts 13 we have the record of how the Christian Church at Antioch in Syria sent out the first Christian missionaries, Barnabas and Saul (later Paul). Already the centre of gravity in the Church was moving from Jerusalem, where it began, and out into the Gentile world. Over the next few centuries great Christian centres grew up in Antioch, in Caesarea, in Alexandria in Egypt, and in Constantinople in Asia Minor (now Turkey). Some of these were established before there was a Christian Church in Rome, and this is a very important fact for the subsequent history of Christianity.
The fourth and fifth centuries witnessed the Church’s great theological battles on Christology and Trinitarian doctrines. At Church Councils held at Ephesus in 431 AD and at Chalcedon in 451 AD, it was apparent that a rift was developing between the Eastern and Western Churches.
In 1054 came what has been called the Great Schism. The Patriarch of Constantinople repudiated the claims of the Pope in Rome, and the Pope in turn, repudiated the Patriarch. While there were various theological, political and cultural differences that finally led to this rift, there were three main doctrinal reasons for the split. First, the Eastern Church totally refused the Pope’s claim to have absolute authority in the whole Christian Church. Second, while the Eastern Church confessed, ‘I believe … in the Holy Spirit …who proceeds from the Father…’ the Western Church added a phrase and confessed, ‘I believe …in the Holy Spirit … who proceeds from the Father and the Son…’ This added phrase was the cause of fierce theological dispute. Third, while the Eastern Church allowed its clergy to marry, gradually the Western Church imposed celibacy on its priests.
Today the Orthodox Churches are found mainly in Greece, Romania, Bulgaria, Russia, Belarus, Georgia, Macedonia, Serbia, Moldova and Cyprus and is the second largest part of Christendom. Orthodox Churches are strongly committed to the fundamental doctrines of classic Christianity, including the Trinity, the full deity and humanity of Christ and especially his resurrection. Orthodox worship is very liturgical and almost the entire service is chanted. While Orthodox Churches seldom have the kind of statues common in Roman Catholic churches, they have instead many icons which are used as visible aids to devotion.
Incense is widely used in Orthodox worship. This practice is said to be a continuation of the kind of worship that was offered to God in the Temple in Jerusalem. The incense is meant to portray the prayers and worship that are rising up to God.
The bitterness and rivalry that followed the Great Schism in 1054 lasted for 900 years. At Vatican II in 1964 there were attempts to ‘mend fences’ between the Roman Catholic Church and the Orthodox Churches. Currently Pope Benedict XV1 is making efforts to further fellowship between the two communions.
Bishop Nick came to visit St Mary's on December 12. Among his activities were a visit to Carew Manor School and to our choir practice. Then we fed him - and ourselves. Many thanks to the caterers for the splendid offerings.
The Bishop then talked to us about who we think we are. He used the example of a pie and chips shop and a great deal of discussion ensued. What if people didn't like our pies or wanted a change? Would they go down the road to the fish and chips shop instead? Should we sell fish, not pies? If we kept to the same menu, would we go out of business? The danger could be in changing what we did well for something different that someone else was already doing.
Everyone needs the basic chips; it's what they want with it that counts. If we make really good pies, people will come for them. Maybe we could add something else to the menu on occasions (fish pies was suggested!) to encourage others who weren't sure about the pies.
But we shouldn't confuse our "customers" with too large a menu, eg First Sunday - meat pies; Second Sunday - fish; Third Sunday - spring rolls, and so on. We need to identify our strengths, improve on them where possible, offer a little extra sometimes and, above all, provide really good chips!
Jean Kimber
The Advent and Christmas season offer all of us an opportunity to look forward as we begin a new year in the life of the Church. It is particularly important time for us, because in 2008 the Lambeth Conference will take place during July and the early part of August.
In Advent we have the opportunity to move from darkness into light. In many churches on the four Sundays there will be the lighting of Advent candles, which culminate in the lighting of a candle to represent the birth of Jesus. It is also a reminder that whilst - all too often - the world seems to be shrouded in the darkness of conflict, we have hope that is found in the incarnation.
The movement from darkness to light is also important in the way that we look at the world around us. In 2008 there will be opportunities to learn about the life of the Anglican Communion. In the first place through the bishops who will spend a little time in the diocese.
It offers an opportunity for us to both learn from and to celebrate the fact that we belong to the body of Christ which is so much bigger than any local Christian presence. The press will no doubt want to write stories of division rather than telling of the good news of how churches and dioceses are serving their communities - in many cases working with people who are excluded and facing daily problems beyond anything we can imagine.
The reality of our diversity, both within the Diocese of Southwark and the wider Anglican Communion, is a story worth telling. It is about worship, outreach, caring for people from every walk of life. In every way this reflects the ministry of Jesus who found himself at home with whom ever he was with.
The fact that it begins with the new life that we celebrate at Christmas which draws on the preparations made in Advent is a reminder to all of us that discipleship is at the heart of our calling.
It is in responding to what God wants of us that we are able to recognise that we are a part of a worldwide family. It is also true that life in families does not always run smoothly, but if we are prepared to listen and learn from one another the fact that all of us are part of something bigger than ourselves will bring us closer to one another and to God.
In this Advent and Christmas season and in the New Year I hope that we can all find opportunities to offer light to the world that shows that our faith is a force for good across all communities.
+ Tom
1 February
Brigid, you could say, was the female Patrick of Ireland. Historical facts about this first abbess of Kildare may be scarce, but her 'Lives', written from the 7th century, tell many anecdotes and miracles which over the centuries have become deeply rooted in Irish folklore. Brigid came from a village near Kildare, of parents of humble origin, and is said to have been baptised by Patrick and become a nun at an early age. She is credited with founding the monastery of Kildare, a powerful influence for Christianity in Ireland.
The miracles attributed to Brigid show her to have been a woman of great compassion and generosity. There are stories of how she could multiply food, especially butter, for the poor. Other stories tell of her changing her bath-water to beer, in order to satisfy the thirst of unexpected visitors. Even her cows gave milk three times the same day, to enable visiting bishops to have enough to drink.
Brigid’s cult grew rapidly in Ireland, where it became second only to that of Patrick. In England, there were at least nineteen ancient church dedications in her honour (the most famous is St Bride’s Fleet Street). There is also St’s Bay, Dyfed, which underlines the strong connection between Irish and Welsh Christianity. St Brigid is patron of poets, blacksmiths, and healers. She is usually depicted with a cow lying at her feet, which recalls her phase as a nun-cowgirl.
24 February
Have you ever been in the position where someone is desperately needed – and you fit the bill perfectly? It is almost as if all your miscellaneous qualifications that never made much sense before now make PERFECT sense. And you sense that you have been chosen by God for the task….
If so, then Matthias is definitely the patron saint for you! Matthias came into the picture shortly after the suicide of Judas. The early church was missing an apostle, and so the remaining 11 apostles prayed for guidance on who to choose as a replacement for this key role.
The qualifications for the job were specialised: the person had to have been a follower of Christ from his Baptism to his Ascension, and a witness of the Resurrection. There were two possibilities: Joseph Barsabas and Matthias. How to choose?
Again, Matthias’ experience may mirror yours: the decision was out of his hands, and up to others. In this case, the apostles drew straws – and the ‘lot’ fell to Matthias. He had been chosen to replace Judas! The tragedy of Judas’ betrayal had led to an opportunity for service by Matthias – and he was well prepared for the task. Are you prepared for any task that God might suddenly open before you?
Like the other apostles, Matthias had been in Jerusalem and had received the gift of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost, and he went on to do a good job. It is said he preached the Good News first in Judea, and then maybe in Cappadocia and by the Caspian Sea. It is thought he was martyred by the axe or halberd, and his relics eventually ended up being taken to Rome by the empress Helen.
Matthias is an encouragement to us to be faithful in small things - because you never know what the future might hold!
A letter received from
Allan Palmer which could arouse an indignant outcry, or whole-hearted support.
The editor will be happy to report your response in the next magazine.
"We're congratulating the Queen and Duke of Edinburgh at the moment on their Diamond Wedding. In 1947, the Queen, then Princess Elizabeth, chose for the wedding service the 23rd Psalm, sung to the dreary tune 'Crimond'. Crimond, in North Aberdeenshire, is a beautiful place, I'm told, but the same cannot, I'm afraid, be said for the tune that bears its name.
What is more, Crimond is not the appointed tune for the 23rd Psalm in the Scottish Psalter. The appointed tune is 'Wiltshire' and I plead with our mentors to restore it in church when we sing the Psalm again."
Allan Palmer
The Sunday school teacher was carefully explaining the story of Elijah the Prophet and the false prophets of Baal. She explained how Elijah built the altar, put wood upon it, cut the steer in pieces, and laid it upon the altar. And then, Elijah commanded the people of God to fill four barrels of water and pour it over the altar. He had them do this four times. "Now," said the teacher, "can anyone in the class tell me why the Lord would have Elijah pour water over the steer on the altar?"
A little girl in the back of the room started waving her hand, "I know! I!" she said, "To make the gravy!"
The following letter from the Rt Rev Tom Butler, Bishop of Southwark , was published too late for inclusion in our Christmas magazine, but the relevance of its message remains.
Tue 1 Thanksgiving for a New Year and a new start
Wed 2 The Church in South India
Thu 3 Peace and justice in troubled areas of the world
Fri 4 Teachers and pupils of our local schools
Sat 5 Carew Manor and Beddington Infants schools
Sun 6 Thanksgiving for revealing of Christ to the world
Mon 7 The Church, its mission and witness
Tue 8 That the Church may never cease to proclaim the Good News of Jesus Christ
Wed 9 That all may know Christ as their Saviour and King
Thu 10 That the kingdoms of this world may become the Kingdom of Christ
Fri 11 That the resources of the world may be used for the relief of those in need
Sat 12 All who are suffering from wars, tyranny and violence
Sun 13 Thanksgiving for our baptism into the family of Christ
Mon 14 All who are unbaptised or who have never heard the Gospel
Tue 15 Our children, parents and godparents
Wed 16 The police and ambulance services
Thu 17 The Community of the Resurrection
Fri 18 WEEK OF PRAYER FOR CHRISTIAN UNIT BEGINS
Sat 19 The Anglican Communion worldwide
Sun 20 Churches Together in Wallington and Beddington
Mon 21 The Orthodox Churches
Tue 22 Our PCC meeting tonight
Wed 23 Churches in communion with the Bishop of Rome
Thu 24 Churches whose roots are in the Protestant Reformation
Fri 25 That we may be united n the fellowship of the Holy Spirit
Sat 26 Readers Conference and Re-Licensing
Sun 27 That we may walk as children of light
Mon 28 All who teach and preach the Gospel
Tue 29 Our Government, local councils and members of parliament
Wed 30 Our Queen and all the Royal Family
Thu 31 The Church and people of Zimbabwe
Fri 1 Thanksgiving for the wonder and beauty of the world
Sat 2 The growth of the church, its worship and ministry
Sun 3 That we may listen to God's beloved son Jesus Christ
Mon 4 That the Church may reflect God's glory
Tue 5 The Queen and all the Royal Family
Wed 6 Grace to keep Lent faithfully
Thu 7 Marriage and all that strengthens family life
Fri 8 Those whose family life has met with adversity
Sat 9 Stable family life and the protection of children
Sun 10 That we may be given the grace to overcome temptation
Mon 11 That children may be brought up in the faith and life of
the church
Tue 12 The Deanery Synod Meeting tonight
Wed 13 Our local clergy fraternity
Thu 14 An increase in love and respect for all of God's creation
Fri 15 Vocations to the priesthood
Sat 16 That we may be confirmed and strengthened in all goodness
Sun 17 Thanksgiving for our new life in Christ
Mon 18 An increase in faith and trust in God
Tue 19 The freedom of all help captive
Wed 20 A more caring and peaceful world
Thu 21 The leaders of nations of the world
Fri 22 All who are seriously or terminally ill
Sat 23 The Mothers' Union Quiet Day at St John's, Old Malden
Sun 24 That all may be reconciled to God through Jesus Christ
Mon 25 The poor and the dispossessed, refugees and asylum seekers
Tue 26 Those working hard to improve our world
Wed 27 Thanksgiving for poets and spiritual writers
Thu 28 All who are in care and all carers, especially the young
Fri 29 Our Link Diocese in Zimbabwe, priests and people