St Mary’s Parish Magazine – September 2004
Daily prayer topics in September
Readings for Sundays in September
Music at Evensong in September
In Darwin's Footsteps (Part 2)
Gregory the Great - 3 September
Martyrs of Korea - 20 September
Extracts from The Mothers' Union
Report
How well do you know St Mary's?
These you have loved too (two)
We
celebrate The Blessed Virgin Mary (our Patronal
Festival) on Sunday, 5 September.
Services will be at their usual times (NB: there will be a car boot sale
on the Paddock).
Later that
day at
A further reminder that from this month our monthly Baptism Sundays
will have a new look. Any Baptisms not happening during the 9.30 Sung Eucharist will take
place at 11.30 am on a convenient Sunday, not necessarily always on the second
Sunday in the month, and no longer at 3.00 pm. The change of time has been deliberately made
so that as many as possible of the regular congregation can stay behind for a
while on Baptism Sundays, to be present during the Baptism service and be seen
to welcome the children being baptized, and to give their parents and friends a
very public sign of the church’s support and prayers. This is an important part of the ministry
which we all share as Christians, and helps to re-assure parents and godparents
that we will be there as the latest member of our congregation grows up, in faith
as well as physically. There are also opportunities during the Baptism service
itself for members of the congregation to take part, by reading the Bible
passage for the day or by leading the formal prayers. The first new-style baptisms take place on Sunday
12th, at 11.30 am, and it would be good to see a large number of ‘regulars’
staying on to usher the new service in in style. As a piece of ‘advance notice’, the Baptism
Sunday for October will be Sunday 3rd.
Saturday,
11 September. We regret that the
previously advertised workshop on "Disability/Elderly - The Church
Perspective" will not now be taking place. We will advise of a new date as soon as it is
available.
On Monday
13 September, at
On Saturday
18th at
Sunday 19
is Harvest Thanksgiving and our theme will be 'Generosity'. More about this on page 10.
Please note
that the September session for wedding bookings will take place on
Monday 20th, at
On Sunday
26, at 9.30 am, there will be a joint confirmation service at
St Michael’s for ourselves, St Michael’s and St Paul’s churches. This service will be conducted by Bishop
Nick, and all are welcome to attend and support our candidate, Rita Gunatilleke. The regular Sung Eucharist will go ahead here
at
There will
be an additional Eucharist
to celebrate St Matthew on Tuesday, 21 September at
The
celebrant and preacher on Sunday, 26 September, will be the Rev Nicola
Coleman from
Saturday, 2
October: "Appeal of Bells"
evening with Peter and Joan Davalle in aid of the
Tower and Bells Fund
Sunday, 10
October: the Guides & Brownies will attend the 9.30 Sung
Eucharist. As the Old Testament reading
for the day is the healing of Naaman the leper by Elisha, and the Gospel reading is Jesus’s
healing of ten lepers, only one of whom turned back to say thank-you, the
preacher at that service will be Revd Dr Raymond Burnish, speaking about the
work of the Leprosy Mission. It would be good to see a large number of people
there to welcome him.
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St Mary's Guild meeting |
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Thu |
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MU&OG. 'At Home' at Eileen England's |
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SUN
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5" |
PATRONAL FESTIVAL - Blessed Virgin Mary
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Memorial Service for the late Mick Ainger |
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Mon |
6 |
Magazine Panel meets at |
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Wed |
8 |
PCC Meeting.
Church Centre |
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Sat |
11 |
Trustees of |
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SUN |
12 |
TRINITY 14 |
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Baptisms |
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Mon
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13" |
"Peace and Reconciliation". |
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Social Committee meets at |
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Wed |
15 |
MU Corporate Eucharist |
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Thu |
16 |
MU&OG "Things ain't
wot they used to be!" - a talk by Mrs Marion
Simpson |
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Sat |
18 |
"Hands & Voices" concert in aid
of church and choir funds. |
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SUN |
19 |
HARVEST THANKSGIVING |
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Tue |
21 |
St Matthew. Eucharist |
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SUN
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26" |
TRINITY 16Confirmation Service at St MichaelsCarew Manor and church open |
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Tue |
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Churches Together quarterly meeting. Church Centre |
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Wed |
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St Michael and All Angels. |
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Fri
3 Gregory the Great, Bishop
of Rome, teacher, 604
*
Sat 4 Cuthbert, Bishop of Lindisfarne,
missionary, 687
Mon 13 John
Chrysostom, Bishop of Constantinope,
teacher, 407
Tue 14 Holy
Cross Day
Fri 17 Hildegard,
Abbess of Bingen, visionary, 1179
Mon 20 All
the martyrs of
Tue 21 Matthew,
Apostle and Evangelist
Mon 27 Vincent
de Paul, Founder of the Congregation of the
Wed 29 Michael
and All Angels
* Read about these in 'Know Your Saints'
Wed 1
Thu 2 The Melanesian
Brotherhood
Fri
3 The
Church Missionary Society
Sat 4 Teachers and pupils as they prepare for
a new term
Sun 5 Give thanks for the birth of the Blessed
Virgin Mary
Mon 6 The South
American Missionary Society
Tue 7
Wed 8 Our PCC meeting tonight
Thu 9 The Board for
Church in Society
Fri 10 All
who lack clear direction and who are led astray
Sat 11 For greater understanding of those with disabilities
Sun 12 All being baptised at St Mary's today
Mon 13 Give
thanks for our acceptance into the Lord's family
Tue 14 Those attending the Bishops Staff Meeting from 14-16
September
Wed 15 Bishop
Tom and Bishop Nick
Thu 16 Croydon Area Council meeting tonight
Fri 17 Rejoice
in God's protection and care
Sat 18 The 'Hands & Voices' concert tonight and all who will
attend
Sun 19 For wisdom to use our talents and resources for God's glory
Mon 20 Woolwich
Area Council meeting tonight
Tue 21 Give
thanks for the Gospel of Saint Matthew
Wed 22 Vocations
to the priesthood
Thu 23 All
retreat and conference centres
Fri 24 All
being prepared for ordination
Sat 25 Those involved in post-ordination training
Sun 26 All being confirmed at St Michael's today
Mon 27 Give
thanks for the gift of the Holy Spirit
Tue 28 SPAs, Readers and OLMs in
training
Wed 29 Relief
organisations and those working among the world's poor
Thu 30 Bishops
Council meeting tonight
Sunday,
5 September
Patronal Festival
Isaiah 61:
10-11: Page 1122
Galatians
4: 4-7: Page 1124
Luke 1:
46-55: Page 1124
Sunday,
12 September
Trinity
14
Exodus 32:
7-14: Page 988
1 Timothy
1: 12-17: Page 990
Luke 15:
1-10: Page 991
Sunday,
19 September
Harvest
Thanksgiving
Deuteronomy
26: 1-11: Page 1165
Revelation
14: 14-18: Page 1167
John 6:
25-35: Page 1168
Sunday,
26 September
Trinity
16
Amos 6: 1a
and 4-7: Page 999
1 Timothy
6: 6-19: Page 1000
Luke 16:
19-31: Page 1002
Sunday, 5
September
Canticles: Brewer in D
Anthem: A Maiden Most Gentle - arr. Carter
Sunday,
12 September
Canticles: Morley in Fauxbourdon
Anthem: Holy Is The
True Light - Harris
Sunday,
19 September
Canticles: Sumsion in A
Anthem: Ye Shall Dwell In The
Land - Stainer
Sunday,
26 September
Canticles: Purcell in G Minor
Anthem: Thou Knowest
Lord – Purcell
John came
to Beddington in 1961 with his wife, Frances, three
young children and a dog called Ruggles. They were a warm,
friendly family who put you at ease immediately. They always made you feel
welcome at the big, old Rectory on
As a new incumbent,
John obviously made changes. Matins at 11.15 had been the main service,
preceded by a
St Mary’s
had always had a musical tradition, with a well-established choir and band of
ringers but John actively involved himself in these. He always sang the whole
of the Eucharist and joined in settings and anthems whenever possible. He
wasn’t a ringer but was always interested in the band. He became our President
- an office still held by the incumbent - and often took time on a Sunday
morning to come up the stairs to say a belfry prayer. His musical ear could
distinguish between good and indifferent ringing but luckily for us, we had a
very experienced band in those days and we rarely offended him. Mind you, he
did suggest it would be good if we stuck to odd-bell ringing on a Sunday,
because he felt the beat of the tenor behind sounded better! (That’s all we do
now, Selwyn. Had you noticed?)
John was
also an accomplished flautist. He entertained us on various occasions and was
always eager to tell you about the latest piece of Music Minus
One that he’d bought to play along to!
Although
John had to be termed an academic, he could also be practical when necessary.
Nick recalls helping him dig a hole for an interment of ashes. Not
unexpectedly, they dug up several bones, much to young
Nick’s delight. He told me they had to have a little ceremony to rebury them!
Forgive us,
John, but we didn’t always understand your sermons. I well recall a certain
elderly ringer falling asleep behind the pillar and leaping to his feet at the
words “In the name of the Father…” only to find it was just a quote!
We were
grateful though, for the monthly contributions to the magazine. I remember him
asking me to join the magazine committee, “because I want someone who
recognises good English.” He was a stickler for good grammar and punctuation
and his many comments to Stewart over the years showed his approval with the
appearance of the magazine under his editorship.
After John
went to live at Pett, the same hospitality was
extended there. He invited the choir down to camp in his garden and to sing the
Sunday services in his church. On one occasion, Nick was unwell and John and
Frances took him into the house, found him a comfortable bed and looked after
him. Chris remembers the beauty of the rectory setting, although he says it
wasn’t that peaceful, with the sheep baaing all the time! His memories of John
are of a man who was always full of enthusiasm and ever ready to encourage.
John and
Frances were “old school” and I don’t think they make them like that now! They
have been very kind to our family over the years, remaining friendly and
welcoming all the time. Nick remembers them inviting him to bring the Canadian
lad we had staying with us and taking us all out for a meal. Chris set up a recording of Icklesham
bells for John for the Millennium. It proved so popular,
people became interested in restoring the bells for proper use. It would
certainly be a fitting memorial for John.
To quote
from something said at John’s funeral, “I think he was the nicest person I ever
met.”
May he rest
in peace and rise in glory
Jean Kimber
A photograph of John can be seen on the Rectors’ Page.
Last year
Peter and Joan Davalle came to our church to
entertain us with an evening of "Nostalgia". This was well-received by the audience of 75
and raised nearly £400 for the Tower and Bells Fund.
Peter and
Joan are delighted to return again this year to present another show for us and
have once again generously agreed to give all the proceeds to the Tower and
Bells Fund.
It will be
a brand new show written especially for us and never seen before. They have given it the title of "Appeal
of Bells" as each section will touch on the theme of bells and contain
songs, prose and poetry. Although mostly
written by Peter, the show will also include a poem written by one of our bell ringers
and, last but not least, additional work by John Betjeman.
This should
prove an evening to remember, so put
Stan
Coleman
August 7 Lucy Ann Edwards of
Billy George Reed of 18a
Joseph Anthony Vincent Battista of
44 Mullards Close, Hackbridge
August 8 Oliver Michael Bowes Dixon of 19
Kenny Drive, Carshalton
Reggie V-J Kember of
Erin Kay Trimnell of
Isabelle Katie Ernstzen of 25 Allington Grove,
Wallington
July 31 Peter Ian Dick and Katherine Anne
Lovelock of
Following
on from where we left off last month, we join Pam as she leaves
On the
Monday, we were off to the
Sea lions
abound and, as in
Each day we
rose at
Our next
port of call was the west side of Espaňola - one
of the oldest islands at some 3 ½ million years old. Here the Waved Albatrosses were wonderful and
although I had seen the Wandering and Black Browed in
Yellow
Crowned Night Herons were in evidence, and Ghost Crabs which disappear down
holes in the sand. A whole school of dolphins swam with the ship whilst Frigate
birds were attracted to the boat by the staff throwing scraps and flew round
while camera clicked. A whole school of dolphins swam with the ship.
Thursday:
We were
shown the different species of tortoise and told how they developed according
to where they found food. For instance, some needed long necks and therefore
developed a split in the front of their shell. Saddlebacks and dome shaped are
the two main divisions. Why did they grow so big? Because there is no
competition, plenty of food, no enemies and bigger bodies retain more heat,
especially with the protection of the shell. Poor George is the only one of his
species. A huge reward awaits anybody who finds a female. He has so far failed
to breed with other females.
We walked
through the village and then drove to a farm where wild giant tortoises live.
The farm hands take groups round at $3 a head.
Friday: the
west side of
Saturday: more steps but, with some kind sole carrying
my rucksack, I coped. It was all worthwhile to see Red Footed Boobies and
Frigate birds performing. The male Frigate birds sit together displaying their
large red pouches to attract passing females. Boobies court by displaying their
colourful legs and there were many courting displays observed. At Henovisa we watched the Red Footed Boobies and saw sea
turtles swimming.
Sadly it
was our last day and we reluctantly packed for home. Collections were made for
our excellent guide and the crew. The journey was long, especially with a six
hour wait at
Pam
Vernon
The theme
for our Harvest Thanksgiving this year is 'Generosity'. Our Lord is very
generous to us, he gives us help and support and the strength to face whatever
life confronts us with as long as we remember to listen to him. He sent us his
son to show us The Way, The Truth and The Light. Jesus was very generous with
his time, his teaching, his acceptance of all the people he met and he went to
his painful death so that our sins would be forgiven, when we ask. The
generosity continues with the Holy Spirit always being here with us.
At St
Mary's we give thanks for the generosity of the many people who have gone
before us; for the gifts they have shared so that we have inherited our special
building and for the many examples of Christian loving and giving over hundreds
of years. We also give thanks for the generosity of the people of St Mary's
today; for the time given to show each other and the wider world God's love,
for the skills used in caring, teaching and building and the sacrificial giving
making it possible to run the parish church, maintain it and enhance it.
May we be
generous to our neighbours this year in our gifts for Welcare
and Nightwatch. There is material in the book racks from both
organisations who continue to need our support as they seek to help others. Nightwatch needs TINS of soup (packets are good for the
mice!), and tins of sandwich fillings; any money we send will be used to buy
toiletries and essential clothes from generous retailers (Nightwatch
doesn't have room to store clothes). Welcare needs
tea, coffee, squash and biscuits, and any money we give will be used to
replenish their stocks later in the year.
Heather
Cosgrove
Pope
Gregory never called himself 'the Great', but instead 'the Servant of the
Servants of God'. Nevertheless, Gregory was one of the most important popes and
influential writers of the Middle Ages. The son of a
very rich Roman senator, he left the service of the State upon his conversion
as a young man. Gregory then sold off his tremendous estates to found six
monasteries in
Christians
in
And the
The
Mothers'
The
programme has now enabled over 8,000 women, girls and men to become literate
and numerate. Funding from Comic Relief to provide three quarters of the
finances needed to run the programme was dependent on the results and
recommendations of this evaluation. They are now funding it for the next five
years.
The MU
Parenting Programme continues to train members to facilitate parenting groups.
There are now 291 MU facilitators working in 56 dioceses across the