St Mary’s Church Parish Magazine – May 2004

 

What’s On In May?

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Readings for Sundays and Festivals in May

Saints in May

Music at Evensong in May

Daily prayer topics in May

A Bat Walk In Beddington Park

Easter Bunnies

Parish Garden

Bible/Discussion Group

Spirits of their age

The Albinoni String Orchestra

Parish Quiet Day

Please come

Blackpool in Beddington

Stewart Kimber

Memories of Stewart…

Christian Aid Week

Who said history is boring?…

From the registers

Baptisms

HMP Downview

The Friends of Beddington Park

Talking With Terry …

March To The Scaffold(ing)

Girl Guiding in Beddington

Chocolate Frenzy !

Do you have the key?

Plant Sale

Silver and the Church: Treasures from London Churches

And finally…

 

What’s On In May?

Sat

1

St Philip and St James.  Eucharist

9.00 am

SUN

2

EASTER 4

 

Mon

3

Bank Holiday. (Church closed for concert rehearsal all day)

 

 

 

The Albinoni String Orchestra Concert in church

7.30 pm

Tue 

4

Magazine Panel meets at 35 Vanguard Way

6.00 pm

 

 

Bible/Discussion Group meets at 24 St George's Road

8.00 pm

Wed   

5

St Mary's Guild meets at St Mary's Court.  Freida Thasan talks about Switzerland

2.30 pm

 

 

Churches Together AGM at Wallington Baptist Church

7.45 pm

Thu

6

MU&OG Countdown. Church Centre

8.00 pm

SUN

9

EASTER 5   Commissioning of new PCC at 9.30 Eucharist (Warning! Car Boot Sale in field this morning)

 

 

 

United Service for Christian Aid Week at URC, Wallington

6.30 pm

Mon

10

Sutton Deanery Synod meets at St Peter's with Bishop Andrews, St Helier

(No wedding bookings in church)

7.45 pm

Tue

11

Bible/Discussion Group meets at 24 St George's Road

8.00 pm

Wed

12

'Spirits of their Age' poetry evening.  Church Centre

7.30 pm

Fri

14

St Matthias.  Eucharist

7.30 pm

Sat

15

Trustees of St Mary's Court meet

10.00 am

Sun

16

EASTER 6

 

Mon

17

Wedding bookings in church

8.30 pm

Tue 

18

Bible/Discussion Group meets at 24 St George's Road.

8.00 pm

 

 

Swearing-in of new Churchwardens and PCC at St Mary Magdalen, Addiscombe

8.00 pm

Wed

19

MU Corporate Eucharist

10.00 am

Thu

20

ASCENSION DAY.  Choral Eucharist

7.30 pm

 

 

PCC meets.  Church Centre

8.30 pm

Fri

21

A Bat Walk in Beddington Park

9.00-10.30 pm

SUN

23

EASTER 7 Carew Manor open to the public for tours

 

Tue

25

Bible/Discussion Group meets at 24 St George's Road

8.00 pm

SUN

30

PENTECOST

 

Mon

31

Bank Holiday

 

 

 

Visit of the Blessed Virgin Mary to Elizabeth.  Eucharist

9.30 am


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Do you have your tickets for the Albinoni String Orchestra concert to be held in church on Bank Holiday Monday, 3 May?  Among those performing will be Jenny Burt, a promising young cellist at present studying at the Royal College of Music; and Jonathan Vaughn, an organ scholar at Cambridge.  (Click here for details).

 

The Eucharist will be celebrated additionally in May as follows: 

- on Saturday 1st (SS Philip & James) at 9:00 am;

- on Friday 14th (St Matthias) at 7:30 pm; and

- on Thursday 20th (The Ascension) there will be a Choral Eucharist at 7:30 pm (followed by the first meeting of the new PCC in the Centre.)

 

If there have been any postal votes for the election of the new PCC, they will be counted on the morning of Friday 7th, and the candidates will be informed of the result during the day.  The new PCC will then be announced, as well as commissioned, during the 9:30 Sung Eucharist on Sunday 9th.   The new Churchwardens and PCC will be sworn-in by the Archdeacon at St Mary Magdalene, Addiscombe, at 8:00 pm on Tuesday 18th – just in time for the first meeting of our new PCC (as above).

 

Last month we said an enormous thank-you to Terry Head, who has hung up his alb after 40 years loyal ministry as our head server, and 30 of those years as our Sacristan (more about Terry here).   Marion Martin has bravely allowed herself to be volunteered to take over from him as from the last Sunday in April, and we wish her well as she takes up her new duties.

 

For Chris Kimber, Easter Sunday marked a special anniversary. Twenty five years ago, on that day, he sang his first service as a St Mary’s chorister. He was just seven years old.  Over the 25 years, Chris has sung all four parts, helped run the choir during one choirmaster interregnum, has been known to play the organ for the 9.30 service, has been Choir Treasurer and still serves on the Choir Praesidium.  Many thanks, Chris.

 

Advance dates for your diary:

 

Sunday 13 June (Corpus Christi) – there will be no Evensong at St Mary’s.  This is partly because that night sees the annual Churches Together Christian Music Festival taking place once again at St Elphege’s, at 7:00 pm; but also because our own choir will by then be rehearsing thoroughly for their performance of Handel’s Messiah, in church at 6:30 pm on the evening of Sunday 4 July.  Though this is very long notice, please make sure you have the event in your diaries now, and invite all your friends to be there.  Admission will be free, with a retiring collection in aid of the Tower & Bells Fund afterwards, and there will be refreshments in the Centre during the interval.  The performance will include about two-thirds of the oratorio, though omitting some of the longer choruses in the Passion music.  The soloists will be Stephen Brown (tenor), Joanna Soane (soprano) and Leon Berger (bass) – all of them young professional operatic and recital soloists, and well known to St Mary’s audiences as members of Chimes Musical Theatre. This is a wonderful opportunity to hear them in more serious vein (and many will remember Stephen Brown singing as tenor soloist in our performance of Stainer’s Crucifixion a few years ago).  They will be joined for the Messiah by the mezzo Camilla Cutts, another member of Chimes who is also making a name for herself in the world of opera and oratorio.  It promises to be a memorable evening!

Readings for Sundays and Festivals in May

Sun 2 May

Fourth of Easter

Acts 9: 36-43 (page 869)

Revelation 7: 9-17 (page 871)

John 10: 22-30 (page 872)

 

Sun 9 May

Fifth of Easter

Acts 11: 1-18 (page 872)

Revelation 21: 1-6 (page 875)

John 13: 31-35 (page 876)

 

Sun 16 May

Sixth of Easter

Acts 16: 9-15 (page 876)

Revelation 21: 10, 22-22: 5 (page 878)

John 14: 23-29 or John 5, 1-9 (page 879)

 

Thurs 20 May

Ascension Day

Acts 1: 1-11 (page 240)

Ephesians 1: 15-23 (page 243)

Luke 24: 44-53 (page 244)

 

Sun 23 May

Seventh of Easter

Acts 16: 16-34 (page 880)

Revelation 22: 12-14, 16-17, 20-21 (page 883)

John 17: 20-26 (page 884)

 

Sun 30 May

Pentecost

Acts 2: 1-21 (page 885)

Romans 8: 14-17 (page 889)

John 14: 8-17 and 25-27 (page 889)

Saints in May

 

Sat       1          SS Philip and James, Apostles

Sat       8          Julian of Norwich, spiritual writer, c 1417

Fri        14        Matthias the Apostle

Wed     19        Dunstan, Archbishop of Canterbury, restorer of monastic life, 988

Tue      25        The Venerable Bede, monk at Jarrow, scholar, historian, 735

Wed     26        Augustine, first Archbishop of Canterbury, 605

Mon     31        Visit of the Blessed Virgin Mary to Elizabeth

Music at Evensong in May

Sunday 2 May

Canticles:          Sumsion in G

Anthem:            I Will Lift Up Mine Eyes - Walker

 

Sunday 9 May

Canticles:          Stanford in C

Anthem:            Blessed Be The God and Father - S S Wesley

 

Sunday 16 May

Canticles:          Holman in F Minor

Anthem:            Sing Choirs of Heaven – Shepherd

 

Sunday 23 May

Canticles:          Purcell in G Minor

Anthem:            O Lord The Maker of All Things - Mundy

 

Sunday 30 May

Canticles:          Berkshire Service - Archer

Anthem:            Prevent Us O Lord - Holman

Daily prayer topics in May

 

Sat         1        Thanksgiving for the life and witness of the Apostles

Sun        2        All teachers of the Christian Faith

Mon       3        All who will visit St Mary's Church today

Tue        4        The Bible/Discussion Group meeting this evening

Wed       5        The AGM of the Diocesan Board of Finance

Thu        6        Our link dioceses in Zimbabwe

Fri          7        All parishes with clergy vacancies

Sat         8        Bishop Nick Baines on the anniversary of his consecration

Sun        9        Commissioning of our new PCC

Mon     10        Deanery Synod meeting this evening

Tue      11        The work of Lambeth WelCare Service

Wed     12        The Merton Deanery and David Monteith, Rural Dean

Thu      13        All involved in the recruitment and training of clergy

Fri        14        The coalition forces in Iraq

Sat       15        The Iraqi people

Sun      16        The safety of all aid workers in places of unrest

Mon     17        Vocations to the priesthood

Tue      18        The Archdeacon's visitation to St Mary's

Wed     19        Peace and stability in troubled areas of the world

Thu      20        The PCC Meeting tonight

Fri        21        All who have been made refugees by war

Sat       22        Those who live rough and who sleep out in our cities

Sun      23        The Anglican Communion and Anglican Consultative Council

Mon     24        The Methodist Church

Tue      25        All who are anxious, distressed or discouraged

Wed     26        Rowan Williams, Archbishop of Canterbury

Thu      27        Bishop's Council Meeting tonight

Fri        28        For respect for the sincere belief of others

Sat       29        That we may learn to live together without fear

Sun      30        Thanksgiving for the gift of the Holy Spirit

Mon     31        The courage to carry Christ within us and present Him wherever we go

A Bat Walk In Beddington Park

 

Friday 21 May

Led by Derek Coleman, an expert on these nocturnal creatures.

 

Meet at 9 pm in Church Road outside Carew Manor.  The walk will finish at about 10.30 pm.  Everyone is invited, but please leave Fido in his kennel!  There is no charge for the walk, but a small donation to the London Bat Group would be appreciated.

 

Bat facts....

 

Bats are not blind, but they can also "see" in the dark by listening to the echoes of their high frequency calls

They have good steering - they won't get caught in your hair!

Bats rarely live in belfries. They prefer somewhere quiet, not draughty, and free from cobwebs

Bats often choose modern houses as roost sites - about half of all known pipistrelle bat roosts known in the 1980s were in houses less than 25 years old

In Britain it is illegal to disturb bats or the places where they roost

Bats can live for up to 30 years

Britain's commonest bat, the pipistrelle, is only 4 cm long and weighs about 5 grams - less than a 2p coin!

Of the 16 species left in Britain, 6 are Endangered or Rare and 6 others are Vulnerable

Pat Kingsbury

 

Easter Bunnies

'Families' held their Easter party on the 4th April (a little early I know, but so many people now go away for the holidays) and the hall was beautifully decorated with yellow and pink balloons and bunches of daffs adorned the crisp white (paper) table cloths!

 

The theme this year was 'Best Bunny' and thanks to so many people there were droves of cute, cuddly and somewhat outrageous bunnies (I have to confess at this point that despite Matthew looking fab he had been kindly loaned the outfit from Mrs Flower at All Saints and the face paint was due to Helena).

 

Talking of face paint, an enormous queue formed when Helena offered bunny face paint (so much so that Polly Deal, a friend from Holy Trinity jumped in to offer a second pair of hands - managing somehow to reach the children despite a rather large bump forming around her middle!) Judging the 'best bunny' was a really hard task and eventually we came up with four... but we had to award everyone a dip in the sweetie tin as the efforts were so good.

 

Lots of interest was shown by many visiting parents when the Easter egg hunt took us into the church (yes, it did rain again just an hour before the party!). Robert ended up doing a mini tour around and answering as many questions as he could. Every child went away with an egg (thanks to all those who donated) and then went on to stuff themselves with masses of party food.

 

We had craft tables - as ever manned by our now resident Katy Seymour and the SMYLE gang - making Easter cards and decorating Easter cakes (a sea of sticky custard-yellow icing and millions of dolly mixtures later and the results were... shall we say... colourful!

 

We are ever grateful for the support given by so many people here at St Mary's, and the fact that we are reaching further afield into other churches (we had people from Holy Trinity, All Saints, St Michaels and even a Chinese Christian church), I feel helps keep the 'one church', 'working together' firmly alive.  It's lovely to share events with everyone and there is a real sense of family and unity - I hope that we can all share events in each others churches in the coming years (this is me with my Churches Together hat on!).

 

We are hoping for a heat wave June - as the Families Fun Day will be taking place then.

 

Carolyn

Parish Garden

For the flowers on Sunday, 6 June, we would like to have a 'Parish Garden', using flowers and greenery donated from parishioners' gardens for the arrangements.  If you don't have a garden, you might like to buy a bunch of your favourite flowers instead.

 

Hopefully we will have a wide range of different flowers and if anyone would like to have a go at arranging their own flowers on the Saturday they would be very welcome - help will be on hand if required.

 

Please let Sue Ardley (tel 8669 3220) know nearer the time if you are able to donate flowers.  We can arrange for flowers/greenery to be collected from you, or they can be left at the church on Friday, 4 June between 9.30  and 11.00 am.

 

Many thanks from Sue and all the flower arrangers.

 

Bible/Discussion Group

How do we know God?

What does it mean to believe? What is the Church?

What does it mean to belong to the family of God?

 

These and other questions will be explored over a cup of tea or coffee at 24 St Georges Road, Wallington, on Tuesday evenings commencing on 4 May, from 8 to 9.30 pm.  Everyone is welcome.  Transport can be arranged.  Just bring your bible and enjoy a lively evening with fellow Christians. If you want to know more, ring Jenifer on 8773 2004.

 

Meetings in May will be on the   4th, 11th, 18th and 25th

Spirits of their age

Wednesday, 12 May - 7.30pm Church Centre

 

Jackie Egerton invites you to an evening in which we shall continue to explore how poetry is able to convey so powerfully the individual spiritual experience as well as reflect the beliefs and doubts of the age in which it was written.

 

The event is free but we ask you to contribute £1 towards the cost of refreshments and photocopying.

The Albinoni String Orchestra

Bank Holiday Monday

3rd May 2004

7.30 pm

 

Tickets (including refreshments) available from

Sue (8669 3220) or Pat (8660 1047) and at door

 

Adults £6    Students £2    under 12 yrs free

 

Proceeds to go to The Malcolm Sargent Cancer Fund for Children  and to Church funds

 

Programme:

 

Capriol Suite - Warlock

Cello Concerto in G - Boccherini

Variations on a Theme of Tchaikovsky - Arensky

Allegro from String Quartet in D - Schubert

Adagio in G minor - Albinoni arr Giazotto

Choreography - Dello Joio

 

Conductor               Ian Butterworth

Leader                     Jillian Warburton

Cello                        Jenny Burt

Organ                       Jonathan Vaughn

Parish Quiet Day

A Parish Quiet Day is planned for Saturday, 5 June at St Mary's Abbey, West Malling.  The beauty and prayerful atmosphere of the grounds of this Benedictine Abbey have proved very enjoyable and refreshing on previous occasions.  The cost for the day will be approximately £8, depending on numbers involved and whether or not we need to hire transport.

 

We begin at 8.30 am with Morning Prayer at St Mary's, then travel to West Malling, arriving in time for coffee at 10 am.  There will be two talks, one in the morning and one in the afternoon, followed by silent time in which to read, meditate, pray or just walk and enjoy the grounds. 

 

Lunch is at 12.30 (bring a packed lunch), tea and coffee provided. Hopefully the day will be sunny and we can enjoy our lunch together in the orchard.

 

The day ends with Evening Prayer and we should be back in Wallington by 5 pm.

 

There will be a tick-list at the back of the church for those interested in coming along; otherwise ring Jenifer on 8773 2004.

 

Please come

 

At a standing committee meeting for Deanery Synod we discussed just what would be useful for us to hear about and  discuss at future meetings. We came up with the idea that we would like to learn about some of the good things happening around us in Sutton, many of which are run by Christians putting their faith into practice.

 

The next Deanery Synod is on Monday, 10 May at St Peter’s with Bishop Andrew, St Helier, at 7.45 pm.  The speakers will be Mark Tomlinson of St Helier Community Church and Rosey King, Sutton Schools worker.  They will be telling us about the exciting plans for a special project for young people, called ‘Soul in the City’, which will be running for a fortnight this summer. 

 

Everyone is welcome to attend the Deanery Synod meetings, so do come along to hear about this local project.

 

Another date for your diary: At the meeting on Wednesday 6th October, the main topic of discussion will be the Sutton Furniture Project.

 

Heather Cosgrove

Blackpool in Beddington

Those present of the congregation accustomed to Mr Wilson’s organ playing on Sundays, when the greatest excess is an exotic suspension or an adventurous reharmonisation of a final verse – who can forget his “Abbot’s Leigh”, were delighted by a concert given in aid of Church Funds which showed the entire panoply of his skills.  From a sedate, thoughtful version of a Mendelsohn Organ Sonata to a medley of Blackpool tunes played as much in the appropriate style as the church’s organ will allow. There are many differences between the organ in church and a mighty Wurlitzer but Andrew managed to conjure some sounds from it that might be heard in the Tower Ballroom.

 

Andrew started off with his own very idiosyncratic version of the Bach Toccata in D minor. It is always possible for this piece to sound hackneyed but Andrew’s version is quite unlike any other.  Andrew also played his own arrangement of “We’ll Gather Lilacs” which, of course, we had heard on Refreshment Sunday as the bouquets of flowers were being distributed. There were a couple of classical “bonnes bouches” of surpassing sweetness whose cloying tendencies were well balanced by more astringent items.

 

In the second half Andrew played, among other things, a medley of tunes some of which were chosen by the audience. Indeed on the way down to the concert in the ‘bus Andrew met one of the members of the audience who asked him for the “Great Gate of Kiev” from “Pictures at an Exhibition” by Mussorgsky which he then included. One member of the audience was heard to remark that it would be a good piece to work up in its entirety so that Andrew could work on the more Slavic sounds that the organ can produce. 

 

All organists are mildly eccentric what with worrying about having the right shoes of sufficient flexibility; playing a number of keyboards and the pedals; electing the exact registration and avoiding the out of tune pipes - Andrew is no exception. What the audience got therefore was a delightfully enjoyable evening of varied styles played and introduced in Andrew’s inimitable manner. 

 

When’s the next one?

 

Kevin Winstone

Stewart Kimber

 

As reported in last month's magazine, Stewart finally lost his four-year battle against cancer on 11 March at the age of 66 – exactly 66, it was also his birthday.

 

Those speaking at the Thanksgiving Service for his life held immediately after his funeral on 22 March shared with us their memories of Stewart – as a bellringer, as a work colleague, and as a member of the St Mary's congregation.

 

David Manger, who had known Stewart since around 1960, told of how Stewart learned to ring at Beddington in 1951 and had remained a Beddington ringer, much of the time as Ringing Master, for the rest of his life.  Although having been a ringer for only three years, he was elected in 1954 to the Ancient Society of College Youths, and subsequently became a supernumery member of the St Paul's Cathedral band.  David's first impression on meeting Stewart was that here was a fellow to be reckoned with; with his upright bearing, military moustache and red MG, he appeared to command respect right from the beginning – and that was before they got into the tower!

 

David went on the speak of Stewart's ringing prowess, quality of natural leadership, and fun-loving camaraderie.  As a loyal member of the Surrey Association, he served as Master of the Northern District and twice undertook the post of Master of the Association for periods of three years each.  He also represented his Association on the Central Council of Church Bellringers for 13 years from 1968 to 1980.  The fact that he was elected to these positions was, in itself, a measure of the high regard in which he was held, but earlier this year the Surrey Association rewarded his achievements by electing him a Vice President – probably the highest award an Association can bestow on one of its members.  Needless to say, this honour gave Stewart much pleasure.

 

David was the first to comment on Stewart's wonderful sense of fun, and this quality was picked up when Peter Franklin, a work colleague from the Financial Times since 1978, spoke of his reminiscences.  He told of Stewart's entire working life having been in the printing and publishing industry (Stewart's father had worked for The Times so there was printing ink in his blood); how he started as an apprentice proofreader and by 1978 had gravitated back to the FT.  But computerisation was ravaging their industry and when eventually redundancy loomed, the opportunity of retraining as journalists was offered and so it was back to school for the both of them.  On completing the course they became sub-editors with the FT - and there Stewart remained for the rest of his working life.  How to sum up Stewart? - a master of his profession, a jovial, caring human being, the FT's guru on all things grammatical (he could tell you the difference between "that" and "which"), amiable, sociable, a great family man.

 

Lastly, Selwyn spoke of Stewart's association with St Mary's from the age of eight when he joined the church choir.  It was as a 13 yr old treble that he was "head-hunted" by the then Captain of the ringers, Frank Jennings, to join his band of ringers.