Readings for
Sundays in August
Enter Churchwarden
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St Swithun - Saint
for a rainy day
St Thomas Episcopal
Church Choir
Harvest Weekend -
20th and 21st September
The Mothers' Union
- Give Them Credit!
What a difference a
comma makes!
Owing to seriously dwindling numbers
attending, the regular Friday evening Eucharist has been discontinued.
There will however be a special Eucharist on Friday evenings if the date
happens to be a 'red-letter day', as happens currently on other days of the
week, and always on all Fridays in Advent and Lent. These Friday Eucharists
will normally begin at 7.30 pm, not 7.00 pm as has been the case.
On Wednesdays in future, Evening Prayer
(which begins at 5.00 pm and lasts between 15 and 20 minutes, will be followed
by a period of silent prayer until 5.45 pm. Do please just 'drop in' for any or
all of this time if it's convenient, or if you would like some unwinding time
on your way home from work.
On Saturday, 5 July, starting at 7.00 pm,
Eileen and Gerald England will be holding a 'Pudding & Plonk'
evening in their garden. If you've been before you will already know what
delights await you - a selection of delicious home-made puddings, both hot and
cold, with wine and coffee. Tickets, priced at £7.50, are now available, with
the proceeds going towards the re-wiring and lighting fund.
The July wedding bookings session will take place on Monday 7th at 8.30 pm, not on Monday 14th.
Monday 7 to Saturday 12 July – Richmond
Shakespeare Society present their annual open-air production in the gardens
of York House, Twickenham. More
details here.
Sunday, 20 July will
be the last day the choir are with us before taking their long and
much-deserved summer break. Evensong will be at the earlier time of 5.00
pm. We shall see and hear them again on
Sunday, 7 September, which will be celebrated as the Festival of the Blessed
Virgin Mary, our Patronal Festival. On all Sundays between those dates,
Evening Prayer will be said at 6.30 pm.
In addition to the
usual Wednesday celebrations, the Eucharist will be celebrated on
Tuesday, 22 July at 10.00 am (St Mary Magdalen) and on Friday, 25 July at 7.30
pm (St James). In August it will be celebrated additionally on Friday 1st at
7.30 pm, before the PCC meeting, in memory of St Ethelwold of Winchester who
died here at Beddington on an Episcopal visit on this day in 984 - and on Friday,
15 August (the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary) at 9.30 am.
Sunday, 27 July at
11.30 am will be the last pre-Confirmation group until September. A
reminder that the Confirmation itself takes place at St Paul's, Roundshaw on Sunday,
14 September at 10.45 am.
Our 'Fairer Shares' interview takes
place on the evening of Monday, 28 July at 9.00 pm at St Paul's, Roundshaw.
Please pray for Selwyn, Pat, Ian and Cassie as we present our case.
The St Thomas Episcopal Church choir
from Florida will singing at Westminster Abbey on 2 & 3 August. Full details here.
On Saturday, 9 August, "Summoned by
Bells", a parish concert in aid of the Tower and Bells Fund, takes
place. Details here.
Service cover in
August: On Sunday 17th the Presidents at the
Eucharist will be Revd Andrew Wilson (chaplain to the Bethlem Royal Hospital)
at 8:00 am, and Canon Adrian Esdaile at 9:30; on Sunday 24th, Canon Esdaile at
9:30; on Sunday 31st, Canon John Simpson (Rector of St Margaret, Lowestoft) at
both services.
Advance notices for your
diary:
20/21 September - Harvest Thanksgiving
Weekend. More here.
Sunday, 28 September - Service of
Thanksgiving for Marriage and Renewal of Vows. Details here.
Saturday, 11 October - Choir's 'Grand Tour of the UK and Europe' sponsored hymn-sing in aid of housekeeping and choir fund. Details here.
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Tue |
1 |
Parents and
Toddlers Group meets in church |
10.00 am |
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Bible Study
Group meets at 23 Mortlake Close |
8.00 pm |
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Wed |
2 |
St Mary's Guild
meets at St Mary's Court - Jenifer Davison speaks about 'St Benedict'. |
2.30 pm |
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Thu |
3 |
MU&OG. 'Getting to know us' evening. Church Centre |
8.00 pm |
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Sat |
5 |
May Queens'
Annual Service |
2.00 pm |
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Pudding &
Plonk Evening |
7.30 pm |
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SUN |
6 |
TRINITY 3 |
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Confirmation
Group meets. Church Centre |
11.30 am |
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Mon |
7 |
Bible Study
Group meets at 23 Mortlake Close |
8.00 pm |
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SUN |
13 |
TRINITY 4 |
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Sunday School
Annual Party |
11.30 am |
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Baptisms |
3.00 pm |
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Mon |
14 |
Visit from the
Bishop of Croydon |
From 10.45 am |
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PCC meets. Church Centre |
8.00 pm |
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Tue |
15 |
Bible Study
Group meets at 23 Mortlake Close |
8.00 pm |
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Wed |
16 |
MU Corporate
Eucharist |
10.00 am |
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Sutton Deanery
Synod meets at St Michael, South
Beddington |
8.00 pm |
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Thu |
17 |
MU&OG. 'Dining-In' evening. Church Centre |
8.00 pm |
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SUN |
20 |
TRINITY 5 |
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Confirmation
Group meets. Church Centre |
11.30 am |
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Carew Manor Open
Day |
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Evensong |
5.00 pm |
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Tue |
22 |
ST MARY
MAGDALENE. |
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Eucharist |
10.00 am |
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Social Committee
meets at 2 Caraway Place |
8.00 pm |
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Wed |
23 |
Bible Study
Group meets at 23 Mortlake Close |
8.00 pm |
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FRI |
25 |
ST JAMES. |
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Eucharist |
7.30 pm |
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Finance
Committee meets at The Rectory |
8.00 pm |
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SUN |
27 |
TRINITY 6 |
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Confirmation
Group meets in Church Centre (last meeting until September) |
11.30 am |
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Tue |
29 |
Bible Study Group
meets at 23 Mortlake Close (last meeting before summer break) |
8.00 pm |
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Fri |
1 |
Eucharist |
7.30 pm |
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PCC meets. Church
Centre |
8.00 pm |
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SUN |
3 |
TRINITY 7 |
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Mon |
4 |
Magazine Panel
meets at 35 Vanguard Way |
6.00 pm |
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Tue |
5 |
Parents &
Toddlers group meets in church |
10.00 am |
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Wed |
6 |
THE
TRANSFIGURATION. |
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Eucharist |
10.00 am |
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St Mary's Guild
meets at St Mary's Court. Rev'd
Margaret Engler will give a talk on 'A Prison Chaplain' |
2.30 pm |
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Sat |
9 |
'Summoned by
Bells' Parish Concert in aid of the Tower and Bells Fund |
7.30 pm |
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SUN |
10 |
TRINITY 8 |
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Baptisms |
3.00 pm |
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SUN |
17 |
TRINITY 9 |
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Wed |
20 |
MU Corporate
Eucharist |
10.00 am |
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SUN |
24 |
ST BARTHOLOMEW |
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Mon |
25 |
Bank
Holiday. Church and Tower Open Day |
11 am - 5 pm |
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SUN |
31 |
TRINITY 11 |
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Sun 6 July
Trinity 3
Ezekiel 2: 1-5 (page
617)
2 Corinthians 12:
2-10(page 618)
Mark 6: 1-13(page 619)
Sun 13 July
Trinity 4
Amos 7: 7-15 (page
623)
Ephesians 1: 3-14(page
624)
Mark 6: 14-29 (page
625)
Sun 20 July
Trinity 5
Jeremiah 23: 1-6 (page
629)
Ephesians 2: 11-22
(page 631)
Mark 6: 30-34, 53-56
(page 632)
Sun 27 July
Trinity 6
2 Kings 4: 42-44(page
635)
Ephesians 3:
14-21(page 636)
John 6: 1-21(page 637)
Sun 3 Aug
Trinity 7
Exodus 16: 2-4, 9-15
(page 642)
Ephesians 4: 1-16
(page 643)
John 6: 24-35 (page
644)
Sun 10 Aug
Trinity 8
1 Kings 19: 4-8 (page
648)
Ephesians 4: 25-5:2
(page 649)
John 6: 35, 41-51
(page 650)
Sun 17 Aug
Trinity 9
Proverbs 9: 1-6 (page
653)
Ephesians 5: 15-20
(page 654)
John 6: 51-58 (page
655)
Sun 24 Aug
St Bartholomew
Isaiah 43: 8-13 (page
1125)
Acts 5: 12-16 (page
1126)
Luke 22: 24-30 (page
1127)
Sun 31 Aug
Trinity 11
Deuteronomy 4: 1-2, 6-9
(page 664)
James 1: 17-27(page
665)
Mark 7: 1-8, 14-15
& 21-23 (page 666)
June
8 Jack
Alexander Williams,
of
24 Cedars Road, Beddington
June
8 Alicia
Rebecca Downer
of
168 Demesne Road, Wallington
June 8 Joshua
Brandon James Bullock
of
25 Earlswood Avenue, Thornton Heath
May 20
Maureen Sylvia Foster, aged 64,
of
15 Harrington Close
Fri 11 Benedict
of Nursia, Abbot of Monte Cassino
Father of Western Monasticism,
c550
Tue 15 Swithun,
Bishop of Winchester, c862
Sat 19 Gregory,
Bishop of Nyssa, and his sister, Macrina, Deaconess
Teachers of the Faith c394 and
c379
Tue 22 Mary
Magdalene
Wed 23 Bridget
of Sweden, Religious, 1373
Fri 25 James
the Apostle
Sat 26 Anne
& Joachim, parents of the Blessed Virgin Mary
Tue 29 Mary,
Martha and Lazarus, companions of our Lord
Fri 1 Ethelwold, Bishop of Winchester. Died at
Beddington, 984
Mon 4 John Vianney, parish priest and confessor,
1859
Tue 5 Oswald, King of Northumbria, martyr, 642
Wed 6 The Transfiguration of Our Lord
Fri 8 Dominic, priest, founder of the Order of
Preachers, 1221
Mon 11 Clare
of Assisi, founder of the Minoresses (Poor Clares) 1253
Fri 15 The
Blessed Virgin Mary
Wed 20 Bernard,
Abbot of Clairvaux, teacher of the Faith, 1153
Sun 24 Bartholomew
the Apostle
Wed 27 Monica,
mother of Augustine of Hippo, 387
Fri 29 The
beheading of John the Baptist
In cases of pastoral need or if you would appreciate a regular visit from a church member, please contact the Rector who will arrange for a member of the Pastoral Team to call.
It is said a volunteer
is worth a dozen pressed men. To say Ian Akhurst volunteered to be
churchwarden is probably stretching the truth a little but he had once rashly
offered his services to Selwyn in any way that he considered appropriate, so
when a vacancy for churchwarden occurred, Ian seemed the obvious choice.
Having just returned
from two years in Miami and entering retirement, he found himself with time on
his hands. What better way to fill the gap than to try a new career as a
churchwarden. Ian felt his business experience could be of use and also he
wanted to make a contribution to parish life. (Judging by the number of
committees he’s volunteered for, that wish is certainly going to be fulfilled!)
Ian is a Kentish Man,
having been born and bred in Rochester - though with Rochester straddling the
Medway, I suppose it depends which side of the river he was. He attended the
Sir Joseph Williamson’s Mathematical School, known locally as The Math, and
then read French and German at Clare College, Cambridge. He had a variety of
jobs after that, all connected with banking and finance. He worked in the East
End, Bordeaux, New York and three years ago went to Miami as Chief Credit
Officer in Latin America.
Ian came to St Mary’s
where Pam was worshipping and they married in 1996. Although they moved to
Sutton, they decided to stay at St Mary’s, as they liked the style of
worship.
Ian’s mother had taken
him to St
Nicholas’s church near Rochester Cathedral when he was a lad but he says
the greatest influence on his faith was his older sister. She didn’t try to
“convert” him but talked to him about her faith and it stuck in his mind.
As a boy at school he
had done some singing and in Miami had joined the church choir. It didn’t take
our organist long to realise Ian would be a valuable addition to the back row
of St Mary’s choir! He says he is feeling his way a bit, not having been a
chorister in a choir like ours, but is enjoying the challenge.
His main hobby has
always been amateur dramatics. He joined Wallington Operatic in 1997 and used
to come all the way from Teddington to take part. His dramatic involvement
certainly influenced his move to Croydon in 1980. After many years “treading
the boards”, he eventually moved into directing. It seems to me as though he
has just the right talents for his new post - it will make a change to have an
“all-singing, all-dancing” churchwarden!
I asked Ian if there
were any changes he would like to see at St Mary’s. His answer was obviously
cautious (new broom and all that) but he did say he would like to see some kind
of group structure for young people who have grown out of Sunday School. He
feels they need to be able to socialise together, to discuss the things that
interest them with people of their own age and yet to feel part of the family
of the church. (He thinks Mrs A. and young Rhodri may have some ideas, so watch
this space.) And thinking of Mrs A. and Rhodri - I hope they are tolerant of
churchwardens’ hours. At least they’ll know where he is!
(But you must find
time to relax in your lovely pool, Ian, and I’ll teach you how to swim - or at
least to keep your head above water!!)
Jean Kimber
We prayed for sunshine
and our prayers were answered!
A small gathering (34
to be exact) of ma's, pa's and wee ones and one granny congregated on the
paddock at 10 am for the 'Families at St Mary's Funday', and what an event
it turned out to be.
The tension grew as
Geoff De Ritter and Robert Churchyard reached the finals of the Daddy Raw Egg
Throwing competition. Geoff came out
champion: that's when he wasn't trying to saturate our two 'big girl' Sunday
School helpers, Rachael and Stephanie, with water bombs!
There were small,
medium and large pillowcase races; an obstacle race - where Felix and James
Taylor won the stuck-in-the-tunnel award and the wettest child was Emily De
Ritter who in her excitement decided to throw two cups of water over herself;
we even added an extra race 'The Sam Race' as there were four children all
called Sam (Samuel or Samantha!). It was a sight to behold watching St Mary's
families lined up with their offspring for the piggyback race, which was
greeted by most jockey's at the end with "again, again please" - who
needed the Epsom Derby!
We all settled under a
gazebo to enjoy our picnic lunches and decided that this would definitely
become an annual event.
Our thanks once again
to everyone who came and took part - it wouldn't have been fun without you all.
But in particular to the Atkins clan who came complete with pop-up gazebo,
glorious 'Winner' certificates and a granny!
Everyone had said that
they enjoy the Families events so much we are planning to add an extra one in
September - a Latin night - following our family outing in August to Holmbush Farm.
Carolyn Churchyard
I asked God to give me
patience.
God said, No. Patience
is a by-product of tribulations; it isn't granted, it is earned.
I asked God to give me
happiness.
God said, No. I give
you blessings. Happiness is up to you.
I asked God to give me
all the things that I want to enjoy in my life.
God said, No. I will
give you life so that you may enjoy all things.
St Swithun is
apparently the saint to blame for rainy summers. It is said that if it rains on
his special day, 15 July, it will then rain for forty days after that.
It all began when he
was made Bishop of Winchester in 852 by King Ethelwulf of Wessex. It was an
important posting: Winchester was the capital of Wessex, and during the 10
years Swithun was there, Wessex became the most important kingdom of England.
During his life,
instead of washing out people's summer holidays and damping down their spirits,
Swithun seems to have done a lot of good. He was famous for his charitable
gifts and for his energy in getting churches built. When he was dying in 862,
he asked that he be buried in the cemetery of the Old Minster, just outside the
west door.
If he has been left
there in peace, who knows how many rainy summers the English may have been spared
over the last 1000 years. But, no, it was decided to move Swithun. By now, the
960s, Winchester had become the first monastic cathedral chapter in England,
and the newly installed monks wanted Swithun in the cathedral with them. So
finally, on 15 July 971, his bones were dug up and Swithun was transferred into
the cathedral.
That same day many
people claimed to have had miraculous cures. Certainly everyone got wet, for
the heavens opened. The unusually heavy rain that day, and on the days
following, was attributed to the power of Swithun.
Swithun was moved
again in 1093, into the new Winchester Cathedral. His shrine was a popular
place of pilgrimage throughout the middle ages. The shrine was destroyed during
the Reformation, and restored in 1962. There are 58 ancient dedications to
Swithun in England.
Tue 1 Our
Parents and Toddlers Group
Wed 2 The
Diocesan Synod meeting tonight at Guy's Hospital
Thu 3 The
Board for Church in Society meeting tonight
Fri 4 Fire
brigades, ambulance and emergency medical personnel
Sat 5 The
Church in Central America
Sun 6 The
Church of North India
Mon 7 All
being prepared for confirmation and baptism
Tue 8 Our
Bible Study Group
Wed 9 The
Diocesan Board of Finance meeting tonight
Thu 10 Woolwich
Area Council Meeting tonight
Fri 11 All
Benedictine religious communities
Sat 12 General
Synod meeting this week in York
Sun 13 Give
thanks for the Church of Bangladesh
Mon 14 Bishop
Nick's visit to the Parish today
Tue 15 The
local clergy fraternity
Wed 16 Deanery
Synod meeting tonight
Thu 17 Church
hospitals staff and patients
Fri 18 Those
in prison and those who minister to them
Sat 19 Refugees
and asylum seekers
Sun 20 Give
thanks for the Church of Nigeria (Anglican Communion)
Mon 21 Children
and teachers beginning their summer holidays
Tue 22 Those
preparing play schemes for the holidays
Wed 23 The
Church of Sweden
Thu 24 The
elderly and staff in our local nursing homes
Fri 25 All
called to positions of leadership in the church
Sat 26 Manicaland,
Matabeleland and Central Zimbabwe
Sun 27 Give
thanks for the Church of the Southern Cone of America
Mon 28 Fairer
Shares meetings taking place this week
Tue 29 The Society of Mary and Martha
Wed 30 For
justice and peace between Israel and Palestine
Fri 31 The Society of Jesus
Fri 1 Our PCC meeting tonight
Sat 2 All who are getting married today
Sun 3 Thanksgiving for our Saviour who became
one of us
Mon 4 Workers in the holiday industry
Tue 5 The safety of all who travel this holiday
season
Wed 6 Thanksgiving for the revealing of Christ
in Glory
Thu 7 All who are married and every parent and
child
Fri 8 All who teach and preach the good news of
Jesus
Sat 9 Thanksgiving for the founding of the Mothers' Union
Sun 10 Thanksgiving
for Christ who offers us life eternal
Mon 11 The
Minoresses (Poor Clares)
Tue 12 Join
with the Mothers' Union in praying for our world
Wed 13 The
Diocese of Down and Connor
Thu 14 All
who have given up their lives to save others
Fri 15 Thanksgiving
for the life and example of the Virgin Mary
Sat 16 Families
away on holiday and those who cannot afford a holiday
Sun 17 For
a greater awareness of the presence of Christ
Mon 18 Our
local shops and industries
Tue 19 Our
armed forces
Wed 20 The Salvation Army
Thu 21 The Church Army
Fri 22 All
Chaplains to the Armed Forces
Sat 23 Amnesty International and prisoners of
conscience
Sun 24 Thanksgiving
for all who encourage, support and help others
Mon 25 The
people of Zimbabwe
Tue 26 The
leaders of the nations
Wed 27 Parents
and Carers of children with special needs
Thu 28 All
new Christians that they may grow in faith
Fri 29 Thanksgiving
for the life and example of John the Baptist
Sat 30 All
writers of spiritual books
Sun 31 Missionaries
and Evangelists
The congregation
assembled for the Ascension Day Sung Eucharist were astonished to hear some
most un-church-like noises coming through the PA system. Whilst we were all
pretending nothing untoward was taking place, it took the Rector to realise
that we were picking up the sound from Zippo's Circus in the field next door!
Who says the Church is
on a different wavelength from the world outside?
"Why", asked
the young visitor, "are there so many graves out there?". Well,
because …..
Unlike many local
churches, St Mary's has been here a very long time and even before this church
was built a community of people had lived, and died, here - all of them with
the right to be buried in the churchyard. That is - nearly all of them, because
for several hundred years certain people were excluded. These were, as quaintly
described in the language of former times, the infidels, apostates, heretics
and schismatics. But even without them this had already added up to a lot of
graves - such a lot that by the early nineteenth century, religious and public health reformers were seriously
concerned.
Representatives of
religious minorities advocated public burial grounds where people had the right
to be buried with the services of any denomination, and public health reformers
were worried about the health and safety risks of overcrowded urban
churchyards.
So the modern cemetery
was laid out, often in the style of parkland. New churches being built from the
last nineteenth century onwards no longer needed to be surrounded by a burial
ground and cremation and burial in a cemetery became the norm for many urban
communities.
Which is why, I guess,
our young visitor, accustomed to going to church in a modern building
surrounded by a car park, was so surprised by what he found here.
Pat Kingsbury
If you've ever sung in
a church choir you will know some of the strange things you discover as you
learn to find your way around a music copy of the hymnbook. One of the first of these is likely to be
the fact that composers or publishers always give the hymn-tunes names, so that
they can all be quickly and easily identified (and probably so that composers
could claim some sort of copyright in a recognisable set of harmonies, and
maybe even get the royalties when a tune was reprinted).
These names are
largely a matter of personal whimsy.
Sometimes they identify that a tune has been extracted from a much
larger piece, like 'Bach's Passion Chorale'; sometimes they come from the text
of the words the tune is set to, in the original language - eg 'Were you
there?' or 'Resurrexit'. Frequently
they have personal names, if a composer wants to pay a slightly lop-sided
tribute to a friend or colleague, and often these personalities get canonized
to look respectable alongside 'sacred' words. Victorian composers, Sullivan
especially, were particularly prone to this - that tune to 'Onward, Christian
Soldiers' was christened after the wife of the friend with whom he was staying
when he wrote it, and she has come down to posterity as 'St Gertrude' in
the hymnbooks ever since. This could
sometimes backfire; his equally unsquashable waltz-tune to 'The day thou
gavest, Lord, is ended' was called 'St Clement' as a compliment to the curate
of the church where he was organist at the time, but owing to an original
misprint it has been attributed to the curate himself, Clement Scholefield, for
130 years. And sometimes a tune bears an unexplained name that can look
anything but complimentary - like 'Batty'.
But by far the biggest
category of tune-names is geographical.
Composers have enshrined the places where they were born, or where they
worked, or spots which they had a fondness for, all over the world. Out of more than 500 tunes in our own
hymnbook, something like 180 bear the names of places in the UK or in Europe. Idea
……..
Make sure you keep
some or all of Saturday, 11 October free in your diary. On that day the
choir will be leading us on a musical mystery tour of the British Isles, by
means of the geographical directions supplied in the pages of the New English
Hymnal - the choral equivalent of the journey from John o'Groats to Land's
End. With frequent intervals for rest
and refreshment, the trek is likely to take eight hours or more, commencing at
12 noon in Caithness ('O for a closer walk with God') and ending somewhere
around 8:00 pm with a great and final shout of praise in Truro ('Jesus shall
reign where'er the sun').
Naturally they are not
doing this just for the sheer unalloyed pleasure of standing and singing hymns
for eight hours at a stretch!
Throughout September choristers taking part will be inviting sponsorship
for this exercise - at so much per hymn, or per hour, or per county - and the
money raised will go to choir funds.
This being an equal opportunity event, there's room for members of the
congregation to earn some money for the Shopping List in the same way; come
along and take part and get yourself sponsored to do so. Full details and forms of some kind will be
available as soon as possible. Or just
drop in for a while and enjoy the singing, and perhaps a cup of tea in the
Centre, and make a contribution as you go. There may even be some kind of prize
for whoever guesses nearest to the precise time the whole journey will take (a
new UK atlas for the car, perhaps?!)
The exact route to be
followed will be devised by Selwyn and Andrew, whose decision is final in all
cases of dispute (is Belmont a couple of miles up the road or in Lancashire?
Does Elgar's house in Sussex count as a 'place'? Is Glenfinlas a location or
something we might need to revive us all afterwards?)
It should be fun as
well as exhausting - don't miss !
Selwyn Tillett
Sunday 6 July
Canticles: Purcell in G Minor
Anthem: Like As The Hart - Howells
Sunday 13 July
Canticles: Stanford in C
Anthem: How Lovely Are The Dwellings –
Rawsthorne
Sunday 20 July (at 5 pm)
Canticles: Dyson in F
Anthem: Hear My Prayer -Mendelssohn
Choral Evensong
resumes on Sunday, 7 September
"I could
hardly be called a pillar of the Church, I am more in the nature of a buttress,
for I support it from the outside."
"If you don't
have faith, pray anyway. If you don't understand or believe the words you're
saying, pray anyway. Prayer can start faith, particularly if you pray aloud.
And even the most imperfect prayer is an attempt to reach God."
Answers here…
On the last Sunday afternoon
in September five years ago (1998) we held a special service that we called 'A
Celebration of Marriage'. This was a
marriage thanksgiving service for all who wanted to remember their wedding day
and the promises they made - and all the couples who had been married at St
Mary's over the previous five years were invited back. The invitation to attend was also widely
given to anyone else who wanted to give thanks to God for their marriage,
whenever and wherever it took place, and one of the most moving parts of the
service came when all the sixty or so couples present renewed their vows.
Five years on it
seemed appropriate to do the same once more, and so there will be a similar
service on Sunday 28 September at 3:00 pm.
We shall be inviting specifically all those couples who have been
married at St Mary's since September 1998, but of course the same invitation is
there to anyone else who wishes to come and give thanks and renew their vows
likewise.
If you would like to
be one of these couples, then please let Selwyn or Heather know on or before
Sunday 7 September. It would also be
useful to know when and where you were married, if not at St Mary's, and how
many family and friends are likely to be here to celebrate with you.
Selwyn Tillett
Saturday, 13
September 2003
WALK LONDON’S BRIDGES AND RAISE FUNDS
FOR THE CHILDREN’S SOCIETY
As The Children's Society representative
at St Mary's, I would like to raise funds for the Society by taking part in
this sponsored walk. Would you and your family like to have a go too at what
promises to be a really good day out?
Joining in the walk will by those children’s
television favourites Bob the Builder, Thomas the Tank Engine and the Fat
Controller, Angelina Ballerina, Pingu and Tubb the frog from
Rubba-dubbers.Children taking part in the event will receive a free, special
edition T-shirt featuring these characters and will have a chance to have their photo taken with Thomas the Tank
Engine.
The London Bridges Walk sets off from Tate
Modern and takes in eight of the capital’s bridges. Walkers can choose a 5 or
10 mile circuit past many famous landmarks including St Paul’s Cathedral, Tower
of London and Westminster Abbey. The route is pushchair and wheelchair
friendly. Free refreshments and
entertainment will be provided and walkers can picnic along the way.
Adult walkers are asked to make a donation
of £5 to register and are encouraged to raise as much sponsorship money for The
Children’s Society as possible. The registration fee for children is £2.
For more information please contact me on
020 8773 1064.
Emma Thompson
Following the
performance of the Rutter Requiem held on Passion Sunday, a number of
those who were there to listen and meditate said how moved they were by the
experience.
The good news is that
the concert was recorded by Chris Kimber and the standard of this live
performance was high enough to warrant the production of a CD
If you would like to experience again this
performance of various Passiontide Anthems, Chorales, organ music and, of
course, the Rutter Requiem, the CDs are now available at St Mary's, from choir
members, or from the Oasis bookshop in Wallington.
Kevin Winstone
PS It
is hoped to produce a CD of Christmas Carols in the autumn.
While they were living
in Florida, Pam and Ian Akhurst were members of the choir of St Thomas Episcopal Church, Coral
Gables. The choir, which is about
thirty strong, has a wide repertoire, which has been broadened considerably
over the past two years by its Australian Director of Music, Ken Willy. Ken has studied and sung in England (at
Norwich and Bristol cathedrals), and is steeped in the traditions of Anglican
choral music: the choir has relished
the challenge of its introduction to Tallis, Byrd, Purcell, Howells and
Stanford!
The St Thomas Choir
will be touring a number of English cathedrals and abbeys in July and
August. After a week's residency at St
Alban's (during which they will be singing at Canterbury on their "day
off"), they move to Westminster
Abbey for the weekend of the 2nd and 3rd August, and then complete their
tour by singing at Bristol, Winchester and Wells. To their delight, Pam and Ian have been invited to rejoin the
choir for these two weeks, which happily begin shortly after St Mary's choir
has started its summer break.
The choir has a
different sound from what we are used to, partly because it uses sopranos as
opposed to boy trebles. If you would
like to hear this difference, and to take part in the worship at Westminster
Abbey, they will be singing Evensong at 3.00 pm on both Saturday and Sunday,
2nd and 3rd August. On the 3rd, Matins will also be sung at 10.00 am, followed
by a choral Eucharist at 11.15 am.
And if you can't join
them, please pray for them as they set about this somewhat daunting, though
very exciting, challenge.
When the Worship Group
met in June 2002 to consider Sunday Evensong, they had a long and thoughtful
discussion about the place of this service in St Mary's pattern of worship. It
seemed to have an undeservedly low profile in the parish.
Their conclusions were
that Sunday Choral Evensong here is something very special, both devotionally
and musically, and that however small the congregation, it was and should
continue to be an integral part of worship at St Mary's.
One year on it is good
to see that the congregation is slowly but steadily growing. Fifteen people, as
well as some of the younger choristers, are on the reading rota. The atmosphere
of peace and prayerfulness remains and the choir, with its wonderfully varied
repertoire, gets better and better.
Thank you everyone.
Pat Kingsbury
The Ringers are
hosting a “home-grown” parish concert on Saturday, 9 August. All the performers are members of the
congregation or ringers and their friends and family. There is quite a wealth
of talent amongst us - some of it as yet undiscovered! We felt we should put it
to good use and raise money for the bells while being entertained.
You will quite
literally be “summoned by bells”, the handbell ringers will also be taking
part, there will be vocalists, instrumentalists and any combination of the
above!
There will be
refreshments in the form of cheese and wine during the interval and this
enjoyable evening out will cost you just £5.00 if you pay in advance and £6.00
if you turn up on the door. Tickets are available from any of the ringers or
you can phone 8660 4254 to place an order. Please come and support us.
And an advance date
for your diary: Saturday, 18 October
- a Beetle Drive for Tower funds.
Extract from The
Children's Society church diary for July:
"The Children's Society believes
children should be involved in the decisions that affect their lives, not just
because they have a right to participate, but because they are often experts on
their local communities! The more we
encourage children to share in important decisions that affect their lives, the
more we discover the wisdom and knowledge they have."
I
think by now you will all probably know that the new Bishop of Croydon, the Rt
Rev Nick Baines, will be spending Monday, 14 July in the parish. As part of his wish to meet as many people
from the church and parish as possible, there will be a reception in the Centre
at 6.10 pm, prior to a meeting of the PCC at 8.00 pm.
There
will be drinks of various kinds provided, and we would also like to have
nibbles, for which we need your help.
There will be lists in the Centre - one for the offer of food and one
for an indication of how many people will be attending. Please sign as appropriate. It would be lovely if St Mary's could turn
out in force; we can spill out of the Centre into the church or churchyard
(weather permitting). There will be no
charge and no tickets.
Heather Cosgrove
(And may I just repeat
the request for some volunteers afterwards to get the Centre turned back into a
meeting room in time for the 8.00 pm PCC meeting!)
the
gender-bending Rector’s wife performing in the Forest of Arden
… actually it's
Cassie, cast as Rosalind, spending most of her time disguised as a boy in the Richmond Shakespeare Society’s outdoor
production of As
You Like It. Performances at York
House Gardens, Twickenham, are from July 7 to July 12 inclusive at 7.45 pm,
with a matinee on Jul 12 (Sat) at 3 pm.
Lists are available
for those either wishing to join a parish outing on the 12th which Heather is
co-ordinating, or wanting a ticket for another performance.
At our Harvest
Thanksgiving this year we will be giving thanks for gifts received from our
multicultural society; for the friendships, the inspiration and the culinary
delights. Our preacher at the 9.30 am
Thanksgiving Eucharist will be Eric Dearman who was a missionary in India and
Papua New Guinea for many years before retiring to Beddington, was a Reader at
St Mary's and is now living in St Leonards-on-Sea.
Harvest supper will be
food from as many parts of this country and the world that we have the culinary
skills to produce. Any offers will be gratefully received by Pat or Heather;
ideas and offers so far promise that the evening will give us the opportunity
to taste a great variety of food.
Heather Cosgrove
Bara Brith - Cajun
Chicken - Gado-Gado - Kefta - Yorkshire Pud - Bara Brith - Cajun Chicken -Gado-Gado - Kefta - Yorkshire Pud - Bara Brith - Cajun Chicken - Gado-Gado -
Kefta - Yorkshire Pud - Bara Brith - Cajun Chicken - Gado-Gado - Kefta -
Yorkshire Pub - Bara Brith - Cajun
Chicken - Gado-Gado
Spend your money
shopping - and support families worldwide
The Mothers' Union has
recently launched a Visa credit card with a difference - one that will help
make a positive difference to the lives of families worldwide.
Developed in
partnership with the Co-operative Bank, the new card supports the work of the
MU to act on family issues ranging from parenting and literacy and development
to AIDS education, media awareness and much more.
For every account
opened, the MU will receive £5. A further £10 will be donated if the card is
used within the first six months of opening an account and for every £100 spent
on the card, 25p will be donated back to the charity.
Shoppers will benefit
by receiving 1.9% on purchases and balance transfers until six months after
their account is opened, no annual fee and discounts off full brochure priced
holidays.
Reg Bailey, Chief
Executive of the MU said:
"As an
organisation, we are dedicated to providing families in the UK and overseas
with the support and help they need. Through this new credit card, we hope that
those who do not have the time to join the MU or take part in fundraising
campaigns will do their bit by shopping!
The card is used in the same way as any other credit card. The only
difference is that each time you spend with it, someone in the UK or abroad
will benefit."
For details, please
ring the Mothers' Union on 020 7222 5533.
Gwen Whiting
The little boy was
saying his go-to-bed prayers in a very low voice.
"I can't hear
you, dear," his mother whispered.
"Wasn't talking
to you," said the small one firmly
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes
your time and annoys the pig.
A report in the media last
year sparked off a public debate about the value of good grammar - and in
particular the correct usage of the apostrophe. An 'Apostrophe Society' had been set
up to promote its correct use, because many people are irritated to see it used
incorrectly.
But there is another
punctuation mark which can affect meaning in a very subtle way - the comma. In
the modern version of the Nicene Creed recited each Sunday, it is common to
hear: "We believe in one Lord Jesus Christ", as though there are lots
of other Lord Jesus Christs about, but we choose to believe in just one. Yet what the sentence actually says is that "We
believe in one Lord, Jesus Christ", acknowledging that there can only be
one Lord, and his name is Jesus Christ.
There is a subtle
change often made to the preceding paragraph too. Listen to how congregations
recite the words next time you are in church and you are likely to hear:
"We believe in one God, the Father, the almighty, maker of heaven and
earth, of all that is seen and unseen".
Yet, look again, there
is a comma after the word "is", which subtly changes the meaning. We
should say: "…... of all that is, seen and unseen". In other words we
are not simply acknowledging that God made the world around us, the parts that
are visible and those which are out of view, but that God made everything,
"all that is"; this world, the next world, the past, the present, the
future, the tiniest particle in existence to the greatest galaxy in the
heavens, everything. What a difference
a comma makes!
So, perhaps we need a
'Comma Society' too.
1
Winston Churchill
2
Cary Grant.
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