St Marys Parish Magazine April 2003

 

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Holy Week

Readings for Sundays and Festivals in April

Saints in April

Whats on in April?

Annual Parochial Church Meeting

Help Wanted

Archbishop Rowan's baptism of - fur!

Is There A Cassowary* Under The Pews?

C'mon you choir

A Trip To The Theatre

Sutton Deanery Synod

Daily prayer topics in April

Music at Evensong in April

With thanks from Cloud 2

Ladies - time to review your Spring wardrobe

The Shrove Tuesday Pancake Party

Why open St Mary's on Sunday Afternoons?

Towering Saints

Richard of Chichester (c1197 - 1253)

Passion Flower

Wildlife Helpline

PCC Notes

Duggie Dug Dug's Praise Party

St George

 

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At 6.30 pm on Sunday, 6 April, in place of Evensong, the choir will present a concert for Lent and Passiontide - including the Requiem by John Rutter. Refreshments will be available in the Centre afterwards and a retiring collection will be made in aid of church and choir funds.

 

A reminder that Selwyn's Friday Lent lunches continue on Fridays 4 and 11 April, but not on Good Friday. Posters giving details about the projects being supported by this year's Bishop's Lent Appeal are still on display in the Centre, or you can read about them in last month's magazine.

 

Please note the Annual Parochial Church meeting will take place in the Centre on the evening of Tuesday, 8 April. Full details can be found on page 16.

 

On Easter Monday, 21 April, the Church will be open to visitors from 11 am to 5 pm

 

The Presidents for both Eucharists on the morning of Sunday, 27 April will be announced as soon as possible. Evening prayer will be said at 6.30 pm .

 

Two saints days will be moved out of Easter week and will take place as follows:

 

St Mark - Monday, 28 April.

Eucharist will be celebrated at 10 am.

 

St George - Tuesday, 29 April.

Choral Eucharist will be at 7.30 pm.

 

A leaflet giving details of Easter services will shortly be available in church, but they are also covered in the following Holy Week' article.

 

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Holy Week

On Sunday 13 April we begin Holy Week - the annual celebration of the events of Jesuss death and resurrection. As those events are at the heart of our faith, the services that mark them are uniquely important in the Churchs year, and substantially different from our regular celebrations. If you havent been to any of them before, why not make this the year when you try to come to them all? The atmosphere of prayer, as it builds through the week, becomes very powerful and very personal. Leaflets giving full details of all the services in Holy Week will be available in church from Sunday 30 March.

 

The week begins with the 9.30 Eucharist on Palm Sunday. We assemble in the church Centre to hear the Gospel reading of Jesuss entry into Jerusalem on the first Palm Sunday. Our palm crosses are blessed, and we sing appropriate hymns as we walk in procession out of the Centre, around by the churchyard wall, through the lych-gate and into church. Then the whole narrative of Jesus arrest, trial, death and burial is read, with members of the congregation reading the words of individuals as the story develops.

 

Then, following the great success of the last two years, we shall be celebrating a Passover supper on the evening of the Wednesday in Holy Week, 16 April, at 7.30 pm in the Church Centre. It has proved to be a wonderful exercise in discovering the roots of our Eucharist and the meaning of one of the many layers of symbolism behind what we do week by week. It will also mean that we can have the memory of Passover fresh in our minds as we share in the Eucharist of Maundy Thursday the following day.

 

The Centre will be laid out with our normal tables, arranged around three sides of a square as they would have been in Jesuss time. We shall keep as near as possible to the outline of a modern Passover meal. It will begin with readings from Exodus, telling parts of the original Passover story, interspersed with the traditional questions and answers as to the meaning and symbolism of this night. There will be a service-leaflet giving all the words everyone needs, and the questions can be asked, and answers given, by a man, a woman, a child, as traditional and appropriate. As the meal progresses the necessary elements of food and drink will be produced, explained and shared; there will also be the opportunity to sing one or two well-known hymns as the commentary on what we are doing, plus some readings from the New Testament to keep us in touch with Jesus and his disciples as they kept Passover together.

 

The second of the three elements of the evening will be the opportunity to share in a real meal together, and there will soon be the inevitable lists in church to sign up - both to say if you would like to come, and to indicate what you might come with, so that we can enjoy a bring and share supper together. Jewish tradition insists that we grapple with lamb stew eaten with pitta bread, bitter herbs dipped in salt water, homemade fruit puree and ideally four glasses of wine; the simpler the food you might bring, and the nearer to this ideal of lamb stew, fruit and bread, the better. It does not hurt to remember that Passover is a time of huge rejoicing and conviviality, as well as the solemn memorial of Gods tremendous acts for his people in the past!

 

Finally - just as we are around the tables, once some of the dishes have been cleared away, we shall join in a simple celebration of the Eucharist together, using some of the bread we have been eating, and the wine we have been drinking, to provide the gifts which will be taken, blessed, broken and shared. This should be one of the most powerful moments of the evening - it is not often we have the ability to recognise how it must have felt when Jesus took the ordinary constituents of the Passover meal and for the first time gave them a new meaning for his disciples then and now.

 

We will as before make use of side lighting and candles - the lighting in the Centre not being particularly atmospheric. In order to arrange the tables as described above, and to retain the right atmosphere for the occasion, we have previously limited numbers to about 45 people. So many thoroughly enjoyed the last two years that it would not be surprising if many more wanted to come this year! For this reason, as well as for the practicalities of catering, please sign up as soon as possible on the list under the tower. We will do our best to accommodate all who would like to be there, but it may be necessary to close the list sometime in advance of Holy Week itself. We look forward to welcoming you to what we hope will be a very special part of our Holy Week celebrations.

 

By Maundy Thursday (17th) the events of the week have led us to the Last Supper with Jesus and his disciples, during which he washed their feet as a practical example of humility and service, and instituted the Eucharist as the means by which we remember him day by day. The Sung Eucharist at 8.00pm therefore includes readings that tell of both those actions, and there will be a list under the tower for you to add your name if you would like to be one of the 12 having their feet washed in a memorial of this event.

 

At the end of the Thursday Eucharist we commemorate Jesuss time in the Garden of Gethsemane. He prayed for strength to face the agony that would await him next day, and his disciples first of all fell asleep waiting and watching with him, then ran away and left him alone in the hands of those who came to arrest him. We mark his abandonment by formally stripping the altar and the sanctuary of all the Lenten hangings at the end of this service, leaving it stark, bare and disfigured - and while this is being done we read Psalm 22, the cry of loneliness and desperation which Jesus himself quoted on the cross.

 

Those who wish to do so then move into the Carew Chapel to begin watching with Jesus in the garden. A continuous vigil of silent prayer is kept up from the end of the evenings Eucharist until the start of the Friday afternoon service. There will be another list under the tower, dividing this time into half-hour sections. Please indicate when you will be on watch by initials or a simple tick. And most important - dont feel you have to come alone, especially if you are going to be there in the early hours of Friday morning. It is a wonderful thing to do with another person, or with a small group of friends, or even as a family.

 

On Good Friday Churches Together has organised the usual Procession of Witness through Wallington at lunchtime. At time of writing details of this are not yet to hand, but if as expected it follows very much the pattern of recent years it will end by 1.30 pm, allowing people to be in church in ample time before 2.00 pm. The walk will be led by someone carrying a large cross, and we shall stop at various places along the route for readings, prayers and hymns.

 

Our own afternoon service will begin at 2.00 pm. There will be about an hours meditation, including anthems sung by the choir, congregational hymns, the familiar Passion readings from Isaiah, Hebrews and St Johns Gospel, intercessions at the foot of the stark wooden cross and plenty of time for silence and reflection. It is an opportunity to focus on the reality of Jesuss death and to thank God for his love, even at this most difficult and painful time of the year.

 

Finally our celebration of Easter begins with the Paschal Vigil at 6.00 am on Easter Sunday morning. This service has its roots in what the earliest Christians did in the early hours of every Sunday morning. We proclaim Christ as risen by the kindling of new fire and the lighting of the new Paschal Candle, and our own rising to life with him in Baptism forms the theme of the rest of the service.

 

We read the Old Testament narratives of the creation, the flood, and the crossing of the Red Sea - occasions when through water the great power of God has been shown - and make the link with the water of Baptism when we were washed into new life by our membership of the church. Accordingly we take the best opportunity there is to renew our own Baptismal promises, and are sprinkled (depending on the Rectors aim) with water from the font. The symbolism of Christ rising from the darkness of sin and death is reinforced as the world around us itself comes back to light and life at the start of a new day. As Easter is so late this year, I would be delighted to give in if regular attenders say you would really miss this symbolism of darkness and light being acted out all round us, and would prefer to start the service even earlier say 5.30 am? Please let me know as soon as possible!

 

As I said, if youve never been before, please try to make this the year in which you come to these special events and services; and if you have, then you will look forward to having your own faith tested and renewed once again as we walk with Jesus through this Holy Week.

 

Selwyn Tillett

 

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Readings for Sundays and Festivals in April

Sun 6 April

Lent 5

Jeremiah 31: 31-34 (page 522)

Hebrews 5: 5-10 (page 524)

John 12: 20-33 (page 525)

 

Sun 13 April

Palm Sunday

Isaiah 50: 4-9a (page 529)

 

Thu 17 April

Maundy Thursday

Exodus 12: 1-14 (page 162)

1 Corinthians 11: 23-26 (page 165)

John 13: 1-17, 31b-35 (page 165)

 

Fri 18 April

Good Friday

Isaiah 52: 13-53: 12 (page 167)

Hebrews 4: 14-16; 5: 7-9 (page 172)

 

Sun 20 April

Easter Day

Acts 10: 34-43 (page 541)

1 Corinthians 15: 1-11 (page 543)

John 20: 1-18 (page 543)

 

Sun 27 April Second of Easter

Acts 4: 32-35 (page 547)

1 John 1: 1-2; 2 (page 548)

John 20: 19-31 (page 549)

 

Note: The above is not a mistake. It has been decided to list the readings for the current month rather than one month ahead as given previously. Hence, the above list has already appeared in the March magazine. Ed.

 

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Saints in April

Mon 28 Mark the Evangelist

Tue 29 George, martyr, Patron of England, c.304

 

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Whats on in April?

Tues

1

Parents and Toddlers meet in Church

10 00 am

Wed

2

St Mary's Guild meets at St Mary's Court -speaker from 'Contact' Sutton Welcare

2.30 pm

 

 

Churches Together Lent Lecture at St Elphege's

8.00 pm

Thu

3

MU&OG. Jenifer Davison leads Lent Meditation.Church Centre

8.00 pm

Fri

4

Women's World Day of Prayer coffee morning at Beddington Gardens Methodist Church

10-12.00 am

 

 

Lent Lunch at the Rectory

12.45 pm

SUN

6

PASSION SUNDAY

 

 

 

Choir Concert for Lent and Passiontide

6.30 pm

Mon

7

Magazine Panel meets, 35 Vanguard Way

6.00 pm

 

 

Bible Study Group meets, 23 Mortlake Close. (Last session before Easter. To recommence early May.)

8.00 pm

Tue

8

Annual Parochial Church Meeting. Church Centre

8.00 pm

Wed

9

Churches Together Lent Lecture at St Elphege's

8.00 pm

Fri

11

Lent Lunch at the Rectory

12.45 pm

SUN

13

PALM SUNDAY

 

Mon

14

Eucharist

7.30 pm

Tue

15

Eucharist and Stations of the Cross

7.30 pm

Wed"

16"

Stations of the Cross

2.30 pm

 

 

Passover Supper, Church Centre

7.30 pm

Thu

17

Maundy Thursday. Sung Eucharist of the Last Supper

8.00 pm

Fri

18

Good Friday. Liturgy of the day

2.00 pm

Sat

19

Easter Eve

 

SUN

20

EASTER DAY

 

 

 

Paschal Vigil

6.00 am

Mon

21

Bank Holiday. Church open

11 am-5.00 pm

SUN

27

EASTER 2

 

Mon

28

St Mark.Eucharist

10.00 am

Tue

29

St George. Choral Eucharist

7.30 pm

Wed

30

St Elphege's celebrate their Patronal Festival Mass at St Mary's

8.00 pm

 

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Annual Parochial Church Meeting

This year's APCM takes place in the Centre on Tuesday, 8 April at 8.00 pm. The minutes of last year's Annual Meeting, this year's Annual Report and Financial statement from the PCC, and the Agenda for this year's Meeting, will all be available in good time, from Saturday 29 March at the latest. Among the business of the Meeting is the election of Churchwardens and PCC members for the coming year. If you are considering standing for election in either of these capacities, then you need to be on the Electoral Roll, and the relevant forms will be available in plenty of time, from Saturday 29 March if not before.

 

You may like to take part in this years elections but are not able to attend the meeting itself. In that case you can apply beforehand for a postal vote. Application forms for these will also be available in plenty of time. Once again the system will then spring into operation. It works like this:

 

Return your application form to Selwyn, Margaret Freeman, Pat or Diana before the Annual Meeting. Should an election be necessary, a voting paper will be got to you by the late evening of Thursday 10 April. You then have up to 12 days in which to think, pray, vote, fold your paper and return it to The Rectory. Papers must be returned there sometime during the week from Tuesday 15th to Tuesday 22nd, and they will be stored safely and unopened as they arrive, together with the papers filled out during the Meeting itself.

 

Selwyn as Chairman of the PCC is required to be present during the count, but as usual will be on holiday immediately after Easter. Voting papers will therefore be counted on the morning of Monday 28 April, by people who have not been candidates in any of the elections. All candidates will be notified of the result that same day, and the new PCC will be announced and commissioned during the 9.30 Eucharist on Sunday 4 May.

 

That is just in time for the Churchwardens and PCC members to be in training for the first meeting of the new PCC which will happen on Monday 19 May, and to attend the Archdeacon's Visitation and Swearing-In either at St Johns, Shirley on the evening of Wednesday 7 May, or at The Good Shepherd, Carshalton Beeches on Wednesday 21st.

 

Selwyn Tillett

 

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Help Wanted

At the back of the church there is a list asking for volunteers to help in the creche. Nobody has signed it for ages.

 

Please may I have some help so that the young mums can stay in church while their children are cared for during the service?

 

Pam Vernon

 

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Archbishop Rowan's baptism of - fur!

Here's something for the person who has everything: the Rowan Bear, a hand-made teddy bear modelled on the new Archbishop of Canterbury.

 

Produced by the highly popular UK Christian webzine Ship Of Fools and Madeley Bears from Redditch, Rowan Bear is made from tipped German mohair. Fully cotterpin-jointed with traditional black glass eyes, the 11"-tall collectors' item is stuffed with steel shot and fibrefill. His cope, mitre and stole is in white, hand-painted silk. The black cotton cassock boasts 39 buttons - one for each of the Church of England's historic Articles of Religion.

 

The first Rowan Bear made his first public appearance at the recent Winter Bearfest in Kensington, London. Similar made-to-order bears are available at 120 (+p&p).

 

'We recommend Prime Minister Tony Blair buys one for comfort because the real thing is unlikely to be quite so cuddly,' said Ship Of Fools co-editor Stephen Goddard.

 

'Dr Williams has a striking appearance that provides a creative challenge to translate into teddy bear form,' said Lynne Madeley, whose company produces a variety of contemporary collectables - including Earsprout and basket bears. 'They all have larger than normal ears - an important feature for an archbishop committed to listening to his flock!'

 

Ship Of Fools is a website visited by more than 1.5 million people a month, who like to sample what it calls its "unique cocktail of iconoclasm and devotion".

 

On Easter Sunday, April 20, Ship Of Fools launches The Ark, the world's first internet reality game show. Dubbed 'Big Brother in biblical drag', 12 bible heroes and villains, played by 'ordinary' people in their own homes, will set sail on a virtual Ark, battling it out for the right to step onto Mount Ararat.

 

More details from http://ship-of-fools.com/ and www.madeleybears.co.uk

 

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Is There A Cassowary* Under The Pews?

The Churchwardens have been counting again. This time it is pews, tables, notice boards, hymn books and 'all the moveable furniture and ornaments' for which they are legally responsible. This inventory has to be done each year and shown to the Bishop's representative - in our case the Rural Dean.

 

Last time we were counting we were pleased to find that 'people' were up. Now we find that 'hymn books' are down - which is why hymn books have sometimes had to be shared recently.

 

Pat Kingsbury

 

PS If it was your pet Cassowary that made off with one of our hymn books, could you please ask him to return them - they really don't make good eating!

 

* If I were a Cassowary on the plains of Timbuktu / I would eat a missionary, cassock, band and hymn book too

 

A doggerel attributed to Samuel Wilberforce, 1805-1873, Bishop of Oxford, then of Winchester, who has a memorial brass at St Mary's (find it in the South aisle, West wall). He was the son of William Wilberforce, the Yorkshire MP famous for successfully campaigning to make the slave trade illegal in this country.

 

Although British missionaries of that time gained a reputation for being less than sensitive to the culture of their host countries, the last hundred years have seen many changes. St Mary's supports USPG, one of the major missionary societies, as part of the Parish's planned charitable giving programme

 

Cassowary : a large flightless Australian bird that can grow up to two metres in height

 

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C'mon you choir

2 March - Home

St Mary's Choristers 10 - Wallington Scouts 1

 

8 March - Away

St Mary's Choristers 2 - Boys' Brigade 3

 

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A Trip To The Theatre

On Wednesday, 9 April, the ringers are going to the theatre to see "Mama Mia" - the Abba musical. There is a spare ticket on offer. It is for the centre Dress Circle and would normally cost 40, but is available for just 30.

 

The show is at the Prince Edward Theatre in Old Compton Street and starts at 7.30 pm. If you would like to come along, please see Jean Kimber or ring 8660 4254 as soon as possible.

 

Jean Kimber

 

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Bibles that are falling apart are usually owned by people who aren't.

Sutton Deanery Synod

The Synod meeting was held on Wednesday, 12 February, at St Paul's Church, Roundshaw.

 

The speaker was the Revd Barrie Tabraham, Methodist Minister of Christ Church with St Philip. The Revd Charlotte Elvey, Priest in Charge, was unable to be present, she was to have given the Anglican point of view on this presentation of the Anglican/Methodist Covenant. Christ Church with St Philip is a joint congregation of Methodists and Anglicans and the services are a complete mixture from Anglican Rites and Methodist Worship Books.

 

Barrie talked us through the 'Anglican-Methodist Covenant' answering the question 'What is in the Report?'. It contains:

 

* A summary of progress made so far towards achieving greater unity, from 1972 and